The Knickerbocker, Vol. 10, No. 5, November 1837Various
History
The Knickerbocker, Vol. 10, No. 5, November 1837
Various
Periodicals
The custom, growing in some of our cities, of private funerals, of
limiting the attendants to the family and nearest friends of the
deceased, is there in good taste. The parade of ceremony, the pomp
of numbers, the homage of civility, and all the show and tricks of
hollow conventional life, are never more out of place, never more
revolting, than where death has come with its resistless power and
awful truth. But a country funeral has, beside its quality of general
sorrow, somewhat of the nature of the Egyptian court that sat upon
the merits of the dead. The simplicity and frankness of country life
has truly exhibited the character of the departed, and if judged
in gentleness (as all human judgments should be rendered) it is
equitably judged.
The colonel's humble home was filled to overflowing, so that there
were numbers who were obliged to await the moving of the procession
in the intense cold on the outside of the house; and they did wait,
patiently and reverently--no slight testimony of their respect.
The coffin was placed in the centre of the largest apartment, in
country phrase, the 'dwelling-room.' Within the little bedroom sat
the 'mourners;' but a stranger, who should have seen the crowd as
they pressed forward one after another, for a last look at their
departed friend, might have believed they were all mourning a father.
They were remembering a parent's offices. There was the widow, whom
he had visited in her affliction; there the orphans, now grown to be
thriving men and women, fathers and mothers, whom he had succored,
counselled, and watched over; there were those whom he had visited
in prison; there were sometime enemies converted to friends by his
peace-making intervention; there was the young man reclaimed by
his wise counsel and steady friendship, for the good colonel had
a 'skeptic smile' for what others deemed hopeless depravity, and
believed
----'some pulse of good must live
Within a human nature.'
And there were children with wet eyes, for the rare old man who had
always a smile for their joys, and a tear for their troubles; and
one, I remember, as her mother lifted her up for the last look,
whispered, 'Oh, he is too good a man to bury up in the ground!'
And there, in the midst of this sad company, and with a face quite
as sad as his neighbors', stood _Lyman Barton_. A little urchin, a
particular friend of the old colonel's, and of mine too, who stood
beside me, pulled my ear down to his lips, and turning his flashing
eye upon Barton, whispered,
'Ought not he to be ashamed of himself?'
'Why, Hal, why?'
'He is making believe cry, just like a crocodile! _Every body_ says
he has written to old Jackson already to be made post-master. I wish
he was in the colonel's place.'
'You could not wish him in a better, my dear.'
'Oh, I did not mean that! I did not mean that!'
He would have proceeded; but I shook my head, and put an end to the
explanation he was eager to make.
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