The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
A curious coincidence connected with three of the four first Presidents
is, that they married widows, and each had been at a previous time
seriously interested in other ladies. It is also remarkable that neither
Washington, Jefferson, Madison, or his successor, had sons, and two of
them were childless.
Mrs. Madison was not a learned woman, but decidedly a talented one, and
her name will ever be a synonym for all that is charming and agreeable.
A warm admirer of hers was convincing a friend that she was not vain.
“But,” said the other, “you tell me she used rouge and powder.” “Yes,
yes, she did,” he replied, “but it was to please and gratify those who
were thrown with her, not because she was fond of admiration.”
Mrs. Trist, the daughter of Mrs. Randolph, in reply to my request for
her description of Mrs. Madison, sent me the following:
“My recollections of Mrs. Madison are of the most agreeable nature, and
were formed from a long, intimate acquaintance beginning in my
childhood, and ending only with her life. She had a sweet, natural
dignity of manner which attracted while it commanded respect; a proper
degree of reserve without stiffness in company with strangers; and a
stamp of frankness and sincerity which, with her intimate friends,
became gayety and even playfulness of manner. There was, too, a cordial,
genial, sunny atmosphere surrounding her, which won all hearts—I think
one of the secrets of her immense popularity. She was said to be, during
Mr. Madison’s administration, the most popular person in the United
States, and she certainly had a remarkable memory for names and faces.
No person introduced to Mrs. Madison at one of the crowded levees at the
White House required a second introduction on meeting her again, but had
the gratification of being recognized and addressed by his or her own
name. Her son, Payne Todd, was a notoriously bad character. His
misconduct was the sorrow of his mother’s life. Mr. Madison, during his
lifetime, bore with him like a father, and paid many of his debts, but
he was an incorrigible spendthrift. His heartless, unprincipled conduct
embittered the last years of his mother’s life, and no doubt shortened
it.”
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