The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
“Your very friendly letter of last month has afforded me much more
satisfaction than all the formal compliments and empty ceremonies of
mere etiquette could possibly have done. I am not apt to forget the
feelings which have been inspired by my former society with good
acquaintances, nor to be insensible to their expressions of gratitude to
the President; for you know me well enough to do me the justice to
believe that I am fond only of what comes from the heart. Under a
conviction that the demonstrations of respect and affection to him
originate in that source, I cannot deny that I have taken some interest
and pleasure in them. The difficulties which presented themselves to
view upon his first entering upon the Presidency, seem thus to be in
some measure surmounted. It is owing to the kindness of our numerous
friends in all quarters that my new and unwished-for situation is not a
burden to me. When I was much younger, I should probably have enjoyed
the innocent gayeties of life as much as most persons of my age; but I
had long since placed all prospects of my future worldly happiness in
the still enjoyment of the fireside at Mount Vernon. I little thought,
when the war was finished, that any circumstances could possibly happen
which would call the General into public life again. I had anticipated
that from that moment we should be suffered to grow old together in
solitude and tranquillity. That was the first and dearest wish of my
heart. I will not, however, contemplate with too much regret,
disappointments that were inevitable, though his feelings and my own
were in perfect unison with respect to our predilection for private
life; yet I cannot blame him for having acted according to his ideas of
duty in obeying the voice of his country. The consciousness of having
attempted to do all the good in his power, and the pleasure of finding
his fellow-citizens so well satisfied with the disinterestedness of his
conduct, will doubtless be some compensation for the great sacrifices
which I know he has made. Indeed, on his journey from Mount Vernon to
this place, in his late tour through the Eastern States, by every public
and every private information which has come to him, I am persuaded he
has experienced nothing to make him repent his having acted from what he
conceives to be a sense of indispensable duty. On the contrary, all his
sensibility has been awakened in receiving such repeated and unequivocal
proofs of sincere regard from his countrymen. With respect to myself, I
sometimes think the arrangement is not quite as it ought to have been;
that I, who had much rather be at home, should occupy a place with which
a great many younger and gayer women would be extremely pleased. As my
grandchildren and domestic connections make up a great portion of the
felicity which I looked for in this world, I shall hardly be able to
find any substitute that will indemnify me for the loss of such
endearing society.
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