The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
In viewing the character of Mrs. Adams, as it looms up in the pages of
the past, we can but regret that she occupied no more enlarged sphere.
The woman who could reply as she did to the question, (“Had you known
that Mr. Adams would have remained so long abroad, would you have
consented that he should have gone?”)—could have filled any position in
civil life. “If I had known,” she replied, after a moment’s hesitation,
“that Mr. Adams could have effected what he has done, I would not only
have submitted to the absence I have endured, painful as it has been,
but I would not have opposed it, even though three more years should be
added to the number. I feel a pleasure in being able to sacrifice my
selfish passions to the general good, and in imitating the example which
has taught me to consider myself and family but as the small dust of the
balance, when compared with the great community.”
With the marked characteristics which made her determined and resolute,
she could have occupied any post of honor requiring a strong mind and
clear perceptions of right; cut off, as was her sex, from participation
in the struggle around her; confined by custom to the lonely and
wearisome monotony of her country home, she nevertheless stamped her
character upon the hearts of her countrymen, and enrolled her name among
its workers. Had she been called into any of the departments of State,
or required to fill any place of trust, hers would have been an enviable
name; even as it is, she occupies the foreground of the Revolutionary
history, and so powerful were the energies of her soul, that biographers
and historians have deemed it worth their while to deny, in lengthy
terms, her influence over her husband, and exert every argument to prove
that she in no way controlled his actions. The opinions of men differ on
this point, and the students of American biographies decide the
questions from their own stand-points. Yet who will not venture to
assert, that with the culture bestowed upon her which many men received,
she would have towered high above them in their pride and selfishness!
Controlled by the usages of society, she could only live in her
imagination, and impress upon her children the great ideas that were
otherwise doomed to fritter away uselessly in her brain. Indifferent to
the charms of fashionable life, deprived of the luxuries which too often
enervate and render worthless the capacities of woman, she was as
independent and self-supporting in her actions, as were the inspirations
of her mind; and through good and evil report, conduced by her example
to place that reliance in her country’s success which in a great measure
secured its independence. Her character was one of undeviating fairness
and frank truthfulness, free from affectation and vanity.
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