The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
From the year 1801 down to the day of her death, a period of seventeen
years, she lived uninterruptedly at Quincy. The old age of Mrs. Adams
was not one of grief and repining, of clouds and darkness; her
cheerfulness continued with the full possession of her faculties to the
last, and her sunny spirit enlivened the small social circle around her,
brightened the solitary hours of her husband, and spread the influence
of its example over the town where she lived. “Yesterday,” she writes,
to a granddaughter, on the 26th of October, 1814, “completes half a
century since I entered the marriage state, then just your age. I have
great cause of thankfulness that I have lived so long and enjoyed so
large a portion of happiness as has been my lot. The greatest source of
unhappiness I have known, in that period, has arisen from the long and
cruel separations which I was called, in a time of war, and with a young
family around me, to submit to.”
The appointment of her eldest son as Minister to Great Britain, by
President Madison, was a life-long satisfaction to her; and the
testimony President Monroe gave her of his worth, by making him his
Secretary of State, was the crowning joy of her life. Had she been
spared a few years longer, she would have enjoyed seeing him hold the
position his father had occupied before him. Mrs. Adams lost three of
her children: a daughter in infancy; a son grown to manhood, who died in
1800; and in 1813 her only remaining daughter, Abigail, the wife of
Colonel William S. Smith.
The warmest feelings of friendship had existed between Mr. Jefferson and
herself until a difference in political sentiments, developed during the
administration of President Washington, disturbed the social relations
existing. “Both Mr. Adams and Mr. Jefferson tried as hard as men could
do, to resist the natural effect upon them of their antagonist
positions. They strove each in turn, to stem the proscriptive fury of
the parties to which they belonged, and that with equally bad success.
“Mrs. Adams felt as women only feel, what she regarded as the ungenerous
conduct of Mr. Jefferson towards her husband during the latter part of
his public life, and when she retired from Washington, notwithstanding
the kindest professions from his mouth were yet ringing in her ears, all
communication between the parties ceased. Still, there remained on both
sides, pleasant reminiscences to soften the irritation that had taken
place, and to open a way for reconciliation whenever circumstances
should present a suitable opportunity.”
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