The Land Beyond the Forest: Facts, Figures, and Fancies from TransylvaniaGerard, E. (Emily)
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The Land Beyond the Forest: Facts, Figures, and Fancies from Transylvania
Gerard, E. (Emily)
Transylvania (Romania) -- Description and travel
I rushed to the bank, and there sure enough was my poor half-drowned
Brick struggling to keep himself above water, but almost exhausted
already. He had fallen in over the treacherous edge, which was masked
by overhanging bushes; and the banks being too steep to effect a
landing, he must inevitably have perished had I not come up in time.
With considerable difficulty, and at the risk of falling in myself, I
managed to drag him out, the worthy Saxons meanwhile looking on with
indolent enjoyment, never dreaming of offering assistance.
The hard and grasping characters of the Saxons appear in every detail
of their daily life; they taint their family relations, and would
almost seem to put a marketable price on the most sacred affections.
Thus a Saxon mother in her cradle-song informs the sleeping infant that
she values it as high as a hundred florins; while the grief over a
beloved corpse often takes the form of counting up the exact pecuniary
loss to the family sustained from the decease.
Their family life does not appear to be happy, and divorces are
lamentably numerous. It seems, in fact, as if divorce had grown to be
an established habit among these people; and despite all efforts, of
the clergy to discourage this abuse, and the difficulties purposely
put in the way of divorcing parties, there is little prospect of
improvement as yet. No improvement can possibly take place till Saxon
parents give up forcing their children to wed against their will,
merely for mercenary reasons, and till girls are allowed to attain a
reasonable age before binding themselves down to a contract of such
importance. When want of sympathy towards the proposed husband is
urged on the part of the girl, such objections are usually settled by
the practical advice of the long-sighted parents. “Try him for a time,
and maybe you will get to like him; and if not—well, the misfortune
is none so great, and you can always seek for a divorce.” Brides of
fifteen are quite the order of the day, and few are suffered to reach
so mature an age as seventeen or eighteen; the consequence of these
arrangements being that fully a third of the couples go asunder, each
choosing another mate, with whom they usually fare better than with
their first venture.
Often in the course of my visits to Saxon peasant houses have I come
across one of these unfortunate young females returned to her parents’
house, sometimes after a few weeks only of matrimony, there to await
the divorce which is to set her free to choose again.
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