Law -- England; Poor -- England; Poor laws -- England; Working class -- England
The right of the State to refuse divorce in the case of the insanity of a
party to a marriage seems hardly arguable. Here is one of the many sad
stories. Norah married a soldier twenty years ago. Fourteen years ago he
was taken to an asylum, where he still is, and Norah applied for relief.
She was offered scrubbing work at the workhouse from 7 a.m. to 6 p.m. at
nine shillings a week and some bread, or two-and-six a week and six pounds
of bread, with liberty to take in two lodgers. Norah, to be with her
children, chose the latter. John was one of the lodgers. He found his way
to Norah's heart by buying presents of boots and clothing for the
children. And so Norah and John became man and wife, save and in so far as
the law refused them that status. As Norah told a lady visitor, "I suppose
you think it was wrong for me to drift into our present way of living, but
it was such a struggle and he was so good to us. I have never been killed
with wages, but we are as comfortable as we can be. I often wish we were
free to marry because we do not like our children being illegitimate, and
people look down on a woman so, if she lives as I am doing."
In this matter it is cheering to know that the archbishop and his learned
adherents in their Minority Report are prepared to make some concession. I
state this with pleasure, remembering the wise words of that good old
Welsh parson, the Rev. John Hopkins, of Rhoscolyn, who said, "Indeed,
Judge Parry, remember this, one must be charitable even to dissenters." _A
fortiori_ one should be just even to archbishops, and it is hopeful that
in the matter of insanity where one of the parties is either of unsound
mind at the time of the marriage or in a state of incipient mental
unsoundness which becomes definite after six months of marriage and the
suit is commenced within a year of marriage the Minority Report timidly
proposes that such a marriage might be annulled.
What the difference in principle may be between the cases of a mad husband
who has been married for six months and a madder husband who has been
married for six years the learned ones do not inform us, but we may
regard it as a sign of grace that there are some matrimonial miseries that
seem to these hard-hearted pundits worthy of sympathy and relief.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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