Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
One would rarely hear of plans made that did not include two beside the
couple engaged, or willing to be. Sometimes two girls were to complete the
party. It is evident that the more means the merrier time. In every group
of girls there will be two or three who cause anxiety; two or three whose
influence, unchecked, may lead to trouble. It is not easy to restrain the
young people, for so often the offenses are so naturally the result of
environment that to speak directly of them would be most unwise. The
chances are that reference to them would put the speaker in the position of
possessing knowledge of an undesirable kind; it would seem to suggest evil.
Often it would be a moral shock to many working girls to have their actions
criticised from the impression their freedom makes before the cause is
understood.
[Illustration: MUTUAL INTERESTS.]
A young girl joined a club for young people. From the first she caused
anxiety. Her face was innocent and attractive, but her actions with young
men were just the reverse. At last it became necessary to speak to her. It
was evident that she attributed the criticism to what she termed
"fussiness." Not the least modification in her manner followed. At last,
after many interviews, she was told that she would never be spoken to
again. If she offended in the club-room once more, she would be given her
hat. That would mean that she was not to again enter those rooms. She
confided to her intimate friend that no one had ever told her that what she
did was wrong. After this interview, a modification of her manner was
noticed, not because she was convinced she was wrong, but because she
thought it wise to heed. A group of young people were returning from a
picnic. Just after the homeward journey had begun, it was seen that this
young girl was sitting in the lap of a young man whom she had always known;
as children they lived for years in the same tenement. Beside him sat the
young girl whom he had invited to the club picnic. The club girl sat so
unconscious of any infringement of manners, public or private, that a young
man who had grown up under the same conditions was asked what he thought of
the act. He started at once to tell the girl to stand up, but was
restrained. Evidently he was shocked, and the act was wrong from his
standpoint, the only standpoint fair to the girl. A seat was made for the
girl elsewhere, who, for the first time, showed distress, or rather
anxiety, because of her own acts. Nothing was said to her.
Occasion was made to speak to the young man who had kept his seat and let
the girl sit in his lap. He was a working man, and his hands showed it. All
his life of twenty-two years he had lived under tenement-house conditions.
"Frank, would you marry a girl who sat in a man's lap in a railroad train?"
he was asked.
"No," he responded indignantly.
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