Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
One hardly knows whether to laugh or cry at the inconsistencies of the
standards of those who go to Albany to secure the passage of bills for the
betterment of the conditions of the working people. We have secured a law
compelling separate closets for men and women in stores and factories, a
righteous measure in the interest of morality. But the closets in the
tenements must be used by men, women and children of several families. A
neighborly courtesy is the loaning of the key, to save a neighbor a journey
upstairs. Children run in from the street, several at a time, for it is the
only place provided. This publicity and freedom is the crying evil of the
tenements, the one from which tragedies come. The marvel is that so few
follow; that in spite, seemingly in defiance, of it all, characters develop
that are beautiful, harmonious, true.
Can one condemn the girl facing the worst that can befall her who under
pressure that her appeal justifies, yes, makes necessary, confides that her
relations with the man who is the father of the coming child began when
each were little things six or eight years old? A relation that grew out of
lack of privacy, the intimacy forced by tenement-house conditions. Both
families have gone far beyond their social position at the time these two
were children, but the blasting of innocency has left its burning scar on
the girl, and she must bear it alone.
Perhaps it is this necessarily open living that gives the love-making in
the tenement region a character peculiarly its own. When interest between
the sexes is aroused, it is expressed so frankly and publicly. There are
times when restraint would seem to improve manners; but among the working
young men and women one is constantly reminded of Adam and Eve in the
garden of Eden. How frankly and unconsciously they must have shown their
interest in each other, and how unconsciously they must have revealed their
interest in each other to all the other breathing creatures. Perhaps
nothing about the love-making is more interesting than that numbers add to
the enjoyment of both lovers. Nothing adds more to the happiness of a
wage-earning girl than to have her "chum" deeply interested in and deeply
interesting to a young man at the same time she is. It seems to be conceded
that two couples can have so much more pleasure than one. The terms applied
by these young people to each other will reveal their social level in the
wage-earning world. If the term "steady" is used where the world of wealth
and leisure would use _fiancé_, the under wage-earning world is reached. If
"friend" is used, the social ladder covered by that word, used in that
sense, has many rounds. Knowing many working girls who would use the term
"friend" when referring to the man they had accepted as a future husband,
or who would in time hold that relation, the writer was constantly
impressed by the unconscious protection the girls threw about each other.
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