Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
Thousands of mothers can testify to the cheerful sharing by fathers in the
household burdens after a day of hard work; of cheerful going without
necessities on the part of a father to give more than necessities to the
children. Thousands of husbands and fathers will note the unselfishness and
wisdom of a mother in caring for and enlarging the opportunities for the
children, who are the common objects of love and ambition, and the
confidence and love of the husband grows with the years. To the observer
there is at the same time no more inspiring and depressing revelation than
the parental love which asks nothing for itself, but all that life can give
for the children, the visible expression of their mutual love. Often there
is no thought given to a future of possible dependence. Wages do not make
possible the care of the children at the standards of the parents, the
buying of an environment that the experience of intelligent parents demands
for them, and a bank account. The last is desirable, the first demand
imperative. Faith is the anchor kept to be thrown out when the life
currents are running toward the rocks of want and dependence. Nothing is
kept back for personal use by these fathers and mothers. Sometimes this
very unselfishness, when unregulated by wisdom, leaves them lonely and
forsaken in old age. Those to whom they have given their lives have by the
gift been placed in social positions that seemingly bar out the parents who
made achievement possible. Even in the loneliness of old age the parents
rejoice at the success and forget and forgive the separation. The end for
which they worked has been attained, their children are successful, and
they still count themselves nothing compared with their children.
It is the independent wage-earners who make the largest contributions to
our wealth, commercial greatness, national prestige; yet the world,
counting wealth by dollars, classifies these as poor. They are as far
removed from the incapable, the degraded, the vicious, the dependent, the
ignorant--who provide the themes for books--as far removed from the
worthless, the deficient, the mentally, morally weak, so familiar to the
people of wealth who give money or time, or both, to lessen their miseries,
as they are in standard and ambition from the people counted wealthy. The
cost of floor space on which to make a home may make them neighbors of the
people who are the problems of a great city; they may live in regions that
are the laboratory of the student of social and political conditions, but
they live behind closed doors, bring up their children, so far as they can,
uncontaminated by neighborhood evils, and overcome their environment to a
surprising degree. There is no word to distinguish them from those who make
capital of their poverty, and the world loses much because of the lack of a
term that would express the class who are the hope of this nation, whose
children are the promise of its established greatness.
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