Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
The very limitations that small incomes impose on husbands and wives,
strangers to social ambitions, bring into the relation an independence and
_camaraderie_ that possibilities of wealth would bar out. When a father and
mother have one object in life, their children, they have no personal
ambitions; their minds run in the same groove; they live of necessity a
unit. When the aim is to give their children a better education than they
had; to place them on a firmer foundation in the wage-earning world than
the one on which the father and mother started; to save the children from
the contaminating world as they had to meet it, there of necessity is a
welded interest that bars out a world of distractions. The world in which
such fathers and mothers live may seem narrow, but the smallness of the
world makes the companionship the closer. As one gets into the inner circle
of these homes, the small part that wealth plays in happiness is realized,
and the comprehension of what constitutes essentials is gained. The man who
knows the measure of his wage-earning power does not waste his nerve and
vitality to earn more; the family grow to have fixed habits of expenditure,
and content is attained that the social strugglers never know. The victim
of nervous prostration is not found in the working-man's world; the fixed
rate of wages relieves the nerves, but exercises the muscles and the
balance of health is kept. The exceptions to this happy attainment are
those whose mental or moral natures have not been adjusted to the happy,
even life of the skilled, sober, industrious, thrifty working-man's family
in New York.
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