Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
Women are by nature more conservative than men; they cling longer to early
traditions and habits; find it more difficult to adopt new habits of
thought. The more closely they are surrounded by people of their own way of
life, their own habits of thinking, the more strongly intrenched are they
in the customs and habits of their native country, the less are the homes
they regulate modified by the new environment. The result is that whole
sections of New York to-day are as foreign as the villages from which the
people in them came. There are women in New York whose children and
grandchildren were born in the city who cannot speak English, nor
understand it beyond the merest assent or dissent. Their lives in old age
are pitiable.
A sweet, motherly German once said to the writer, and but a short time ago:
"I am so lonely. I cannot speak English. I never learn it. I sit in my
daughter's house, where German is not used. The children all want to be
Americans; they will not talk German. When I sit at the table, I never
speak. They all talk, but I do not understand. Sometimes I ask, and the
children say they have not time to tell me. They buy only the English
papers, and so I cannot read. I wish I had learned English when I first
came. I was young then, but I had eight children after I came here, and I
did everything for them. I could not take the time, I thought. I see now
the children could have taught me. Now they have not the time." This woman
was a German in her sympathies, her interests, her standards. Positive race
antagonism existed between her and her family. She measured everything by
German life and rule, and lived a critic among a people her own only in
blood. In answer to the question, she explained that her husband learned
English for his "work." The family attended the mission church when they
attended church. She attended the German services, but the rest of the
family, even her husband, the English services. Her constant plaint was: "I
am so lonely. Some day I never speak all day. At the table they speak
English."
Hundreds of women like this one sit in homes in New York in which they have
no part, barred out by the fact that they speak a foreign tongue. One of
the mistakes made in even our church work has been the maintaining of
distinctive church services in a foreign tongue. In so far as the churches
have done this, they have been an obstruction to good citizenship for time,
whatever they may have accomplished for eternity, for the people they call
their own.
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