Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
Mothers, after nights spent in overcrowded, unventilated bedrooms caring
for nursing babies, began getting breakfast at five o'clock in the morning.
Husband and children of every age must be wakened for work or for school,
often irritable because of the unhygienic conditions under which they had
slept. Friction and quarreling is to be expected when there is one
wash-basin for the use of the whole family; one sink for the morning bath
of the family when there is running water in the rooms. Breakfast of bread
and strong coffee, perhaps with the family waiting turns because only three
sides of the table are available, as there is not room to pull the table
out from the wall to make the four sides useful. Floor space costs in the
tenements.
Friction, adjustment and hurry do not tend to develop a serene spirit in
the house-mother whose office is purely executive. How much less in the
house-mother whose hands must do all the work of the home? When the working
and school-going members of the family are cared for and have gone their
several ways, there is left to the house-mother almost always a baby and
another child too young to go to school, to care for and amuse. In addition
there is the round of work--washing, ironing, mending, making, cooking--all
to be done under limitations of space and conveniences; often with the
handicap of ignorance. Whatever the advantage of self-made money-makers,
the self-made housekeeper, taught only by experience, not only pays dearly
for her education, but is more than apt to be satisfied with her
self-taught accomplishments, thus increasing her disadvantages in the use
of time and money.
Even with a small family the house-mother with the usual round of work
would not have many moments of leisure. When it is a large family, with all
the disadvantages of the tenement-house home, the days are not long enough
for the work to be done. It crowds the hours, and accumulates until often
discouragement and nervous exhaustion follow. If the mother have a
conscience, she wars with herself, battling against conditions that she
feels but cannot understand nor overcome.
Three hundred and sixty-five days in the year the Residents found these
mothers who needed the change of pleasure that made no demands on purses.
Even good wages did not permit these families money to buy pleasure and
recreation. Mothers, good mothers, grew old before their time. They often
grew careless of their personal appearance, and by this risked their
influence in their homes, separation from their children, alert and often
overconscious on the subject of dress.
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