Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
Then there were semi-apathetic mothers because of discouragement; the
mothers who drifted, never having an aim in life or an ideal; then the
mothers who long ago ceased to make any struggle against environment, every
year becoming more inert; the mothers, now grand-mothers, who were
remembered only in time of need by their children. The Residents saw the
need of the mothers of all types. How could the apathetic be awakened, the
discouraged stimulated, the overworked rested and cheered? Hundreds,
thousands of mothers were losing the best things of life because for them
the activities that increase interest and sympathies could not be brought
into their lives. Their environment made social opportunities in their own
homes impossible. Husband and children, through contact with life in shop,
factory, store, street and school, enlarged their interest every day; while
the wife and mother came to a mental standstill, often losing interest in
everything outside of her home; often failing through lack of knowledge and
discouragement in making that a place of rest and refreshing.
The Settlement was the bright spot in the lives of hundreds of young people
and children. The mothers who could be stimulated must be reached and held
in a center where pleasure would be the controlling element and education
an incident. There were mothers who had lost all desire for social life. It
was found difficult to arouse in them even a momentary interest in the
thought of seeing new things, new people. The grind of life had blunted all
social instincts. There were women who on the social side of their natures
were dead; could not be roused by any thought outside of the routine of
their lives. Interest enough to do for their families what required the
least effort of mind and body was all that was left. The hope in these
homes was the children. To them the Settlement must give inspiration and
ideals; the home would never give either.
In the second year of the College Settlement's activity a persistent effort
was made to reach the mothers, especially the mothers of the more alert and
active boys and girls affiliated with the Settlement, in clubs and classes.
These mothers came, but never the same group twice. The smallest obstacle
would prevent the very women who most needed social opportunity from
accepting it. When they needed help, they came to the Settlement; they were
most cordial hostesses when the Residents called; delighted in the
opportunities the Settlement made for their children; but the habit of
staying indoors, out of touch with any life but that of the tenement-house
halls, was a fixed habit most difficult to dislodge.
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