Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
This was the very type of mother the projectors of the club hoped to reach.
The first evening reception proved such a success that it was decided to
hold one evening reception each month for the family and friends of the
members. Thanksgiving and Christmas receptions belonged to the children.
Apples, nuts, gingerbread, cake and peanut brittle, with coffee, are the
refreshments for Thanksgiving evening; new milk for the children. The games
are Blind Man's Buff, Going to Jerusalem, with the Virginia Reel as an
alternate, because the little children can dance it. "America" and "Home,
Sweet Home," sung in chorus, close the evening. More than one family is now
represented by three generations on these evenings. At the first evening
reception a father and son of twenty years stood side by side. When the
father began singing, the son stopped and looked at him in amazement. This
changed to one of enjoyment, as he said between the verses: "Dad, I didn't
know you could sing." "I haven't in twenty years, I guess," was the reply.
Both father and son had good voices. The son had made the discovery that he
had a voice, at the Settlement, in his club. He edged closer to his father;
there was a new bond of sympathy. The boy's Christmas present from his
father, mother, brother and sisters was a mandolin, the first time a
combination present had been given. It was quite natural that the next year
a table for the new parlor should be the gift of the children to the
parents.
An incident occurring in the third year after the club was organized is,
perhaps, as perfect an illustration of the lack of social opportunity in a
tenement-house home as can be given.
One of the most faithful and interested of the members was a woman about
fifty-seven when she joined the club. She was slow to respond to the club
idea; to the right of personal judgment outside her own affairs. Her
responses to a question that involved an expression of opinion was usually:
"It don't make no difference to me." After a time she grasped the idea that
she was one of many, but had equal rights with all the members in deciding
questions relating to the club, and she began assuming responsibilities;
expressing her views. In the third year she came to the president, and
with every evidence of wishing to disclose a secret, said: "Next week
Thursday is my birthday. I never had a birthday party in my life. I've
always wanted one, but never had the room, and I never had the dishes. Do
you believe I could have a birthday party here next week?"
"Yes, I'm sure you could."
"I can't do much; and I only have two friends besides the club that I want
to have. I want to pay for all the coffee and cake, that I may feel that
it's my party. Just my two daughters, and my two friends, and my
grandchildren--four, that's all. I've been saving the money for a year."
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