Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
The subject of the first formal talk, informally conducted, as its subject
demanded, was: "How long after the hair is out of curling-papers is it
becoming?" This, of course, gave the opportunity of laying stress on a
wife's personal appearance; the necessity of being as attractive as
possible to one's own husband and children. That was, is, the keynote of
the club, its creed, its religion to-day, when mothers and married
daughters are members. The time of meeting was two o'clock, that the
mothers might be at home in time to get supper for their husbands and
children. Babies came with their mothers, and children in school came to
the Settlement instead of going home after school. Many of the little girls
belonged to a sewing club that met the same afternoon at the Settlement.
The club, named in the first month of its existence "The Woman's Home
Improvement Club," celebrated its eleventh anniversary at the College
Settlement, October, 1901.
[Illustration: THE WOMAN'S HOME IMPROVEMENT CLUB AT THE SETTLEMENT.]
As the first anniversary approached, the members suggested an evening
meeting, that their husbands might come. The proposition received the most
enthusiastic support from the Settlement Residents. Husbands, all the
children who worked, and a friend of each member--if married, her
husband--were included in the invitation. Dancing and music occupied the
evening. What a revelation! Fathers dancing with their own daughters for
the first time; mothers with their sons; daughters and sons spellbound at
the sight of their mothers and fathers dancing together! It was evident
that the club was a feature of the family life. The husbands and grown
children knew what had been talked about, what had been done at the
meetings. One husband, watching his wife dancing with their son, said: "I
don't know how you've done it, but this club has made my wife young again;
she's as young as when we were married." This wife and mother of nine
children at the club one afternoon wished there were a hundred such clubs.
"'Tis a mistake to just stay shut up." She waited a minute, and then said:
"I had not bought a hat for eighteen years until I joined this club; I did
not need it; I never went anywhere; the children did all the errands."
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