The Letters of the Duke of Wellington to Miss J., 1834-1851: Edited, with Extracts from the Diary of the LatterWellington, Arthur Wellesley, Duke of
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The Letters of the Duke of Wellington to Miss J., 1834-1851: Edited, with Extracts from the Diary of the Latter
Wellington, Arthur Wellesley, Duke of
Wellington, Arthur Wellesley, Duke of, 1769-1852 -- Correspondence
MY DEAR DUKE,--As you only acknowledge in yours of the 13th, two
letters, I beg to say there were addressed to you by yesterday,
three; One, written on Thursday, another on Friday and the last
on Saturday. And I take this opportunity of making two enquiries
respecting which my mind is not at all satisfied.
The first is; Why I am to receive a change of style in the
appearance of your letters with regard to the Seal thereof? and
the next, _called forth thereby_; _Why_ you _ever_ ceased to sign
your _Name_ at the conclusion of your letters? If either of these
changes sprang from disrespect or want of confidence in my
integrity, confidence, Christianity and friendship, I shall
without hesitation or delay return Your Grace every letter I have
in my possession, as in _that_ case they will cease to have any
value in _my_ estimation. I will also beg to decline all further
intercourse, knowing that the sincerity and purity of my
friendship merits both consideration and respect.
You will perhaps wonder at my noticing your omission with regard
to Signature after the receipt of so many letters. I should not
have done so, however incomprehensible the same may have been and
_was_ to me, had not _this additional_ circumstance tended to
_strengthen_ a momentary feeling experienced when your first
letter signed W. reached me. But this I overcame, fancying you
were in the _habit_ of doing so to all your correspondents of any
and every rank, and imagining you superior to the _capability_ of
taking advantage of circumstances. If I am mistaken with regard
to this being a _general habit_, I am _justified_ in asking--Why
such an unwarrantable liberty was taken with me? I assure you
that however great my affection may be, it is not of a nature to
submit to ANY feeling that is not accompanied with the _deepest
respect_ as well as esteem, nor could the latter be either
durable or _acceptable_ under OTHER circumstances.
Waiting your reply before I can decide what further line of
conduct to pursue, praying in the mean time to be directed BY HIM
Who knows _all_ the _secret_, hidden motives of the human heart
without exception, I inscribe myself,
Your sincere Christian friend,
A. J.
P.S. Since writing the above, my antipathy to the omission of
_either_ your NAME OR seal is so _increased_ that I beg to
decline receiving _any_ letter which does not bring with it
_these_ marks of DUE respect.
Not satisfied with sending off this letter, Miss J. followed it with
another no less severe. In her Diary she describes the feelings that
swayed her while she awaited a reply to her missives:
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