The Library of Work and Play: HousekeepingGilman, Elizabeth Hale
General
The Library of Work and Play: Housekeeping
Gilman, Elizabeth Hale
Home economics
A wash cloth, a piece of soap, a brush and comb, pins and a whisk
broom, because these things are easily and frequently forgotten by a
traveller.
A wrapper, a pair of bedroom slippers, and a Bible. These three are
especially for transient guests as they are apt to be heavy and large
to carry in a travelling bag.
If the guest-room bed is very daintily covered, it is well to have a
place, other than the bed, where a guest may lie down.
The bed should be opened at night because a stranger often feels a
helpless ignorance of the intricacies of shams and counterpanes and
unaccustomed methods of bed making.
The degree of preparation made for meals offered to guests should be
governed by the occasion. When people are formally invited into your
home for a meal, it is natural that special preparations should be made
for them, and quite right, provided the repast does do not exceed what
you can afford or serve without evident anxiety. Unexpected guests and
guests who stay a few days or more ought to be taken into the regular
life of the family, with only such departures from the usual order as
the use of finer linen, or flowers on the table, or the preparation of
some dish which the guest is known to care for.
There are several small reasons why it is not wise to make a sudden
change in the family ways for the sake of impressing a guest. One is
that some candid member of the family is sure to speak of the change
or betray it by awkwardness; another is that the guest is sure to find
out the alteration by this means or some other; and another is that
"company manners" and "company menus" produce an awful restraint which
even a cordial family and a genial guest cannot break through.
Then there are two large reasons for not trying to impress a guest; it
is artificial and untrue, and it kills natural, simple hospitality. If
entertaining is made a great trouble and expense, many people cannot
do it. And this is a real misfortune because the reception of guests
is a necessary part of family life. It is a pleasure, it brings new
knowledge and new experience, it is an opportunity for kindliness, it
diverts people's minds from themselves and besides, it is a sacred duty.
A good many times I have seen trouble in a family or in a school
completely done away by the coming of an interesting guest. Probably
every one knows instances when a guest has brought a great happiness
or a great blessing. For there is much truth as well as loveliness in
those old tales of angels entertained unawares, of the weary stranger
sheltered who proves to be the king, and of travellers lodged for a
night who departing leave exhaustless gifts.
XVI
SERVANTS
WHATEVER is said within the next few years of the situation known
as "the servant question" must be in the form of a theory or of an
opinion. For the question is still unanswered, the problem unsolved.
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