The Library of Work and Play: HousekeepingGilman, Elizabeth Hale
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The Library of Work and Play: Housekeeping
Gilman, Elizabeth Hale
Home economics
And yet if the patriarchal system of domestic service is to work, we
must be able to answer earnestly, "yes," to these questions, and the
servant on her side must make the family life and interests her chief
concern. She must be like "Black Lize" who lies buried at the feet of
her mistress in a northern cemetery, and who told some of her people
that _she_ did not leave "the family" after the war as they had done,
she "stayed, and put up with things."
Or she must be like two Irish saints whom I know, devout women each
consecrated to the service of a family. One hears their feet on the
stairs at five in the morning going out to Church, and again going up
to bed late at night after the last young mistress is undressed and
comfortably at rest. They live here or there as others choose; they go
out or stay in, sleep or stay awake, wait long or hurry madly as other
people wish; they are the chosen companions of the ill, the sad and the
difficult members of the family; they have given up their own family
ties to share the fate of another family; they have no end in life
except to serve.
This patriarchal system asks a good deal of mere human creatures, does
it not? And one cannot say positively what the business system will ask
because it has not been tried, but it seems probable that it would ask
as much only in different ways.
It is time, though, to consider what the requirements of the business
system might be, because many people think that domestic service will
before long undergo some such change as has come over the professions
of teaching and nursing in the last half-century. Any one who will
read the novels of Miss Bronté and of Miss Austen, of Thackeray and
of Dickens with special attention to the governesses and nurses they
contain, is likely to feel surprise, however well he may know the
histories of these professions.
Particularly consider "Shirley" for governesses and "Martin Chuzzlewit"
for nurses and then picture the teachers and nurses of to-day, and
it will not be hard to believe that in fifty years the profession of
domestic service may also be so changed in status that no woman will
feel it a social descent to employ herself therein.
What will the relation between worker and employer be then, and what
will be required of each?
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