The Library of Work and Play: HousekeepingGilman, Elizabeth Hale
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The Library of Work and Play: Housekeeping
Gilman, Elizabeth Hale
Home economics
You will say that it amounts to the same thing. That if that money
is put into the bank, all these little pinching economies will have
to be borne as a consequence. That is logical, but only to a certain
extent true in practice. In one case, that of the definite amount put
away monthly, the money is saved because it is not there to spend; in
the other case, it is there, but is saved with the thought of saving.
The latter method means going without everything that possibly can be
gone without. It is the method by which one fills a Lenten mitebox--it
is disciplinary, that is, it is meant to hurt a little, and it does.
People do not keep Lent all the year, however; it is an especial
season for an especial purpose. At some time of serious difficulty in
household affairs, it may become necessary to save in this Lenten
way, but the usual, regular sort of saving, which is a duty for life
with most of us, should be done as far as possible by a decision once
carefully made, and afterward automatically carried out.
I wish I could in some way show the pleasant side of the matter of
savings. There is much comfort and gladness in the possession of a
small reserve fund. The mere sight of the big, ugly Savings Bank
which contains it can give new courage. We look up at the building in
passing and know we have there the chance to start again if we are not
succeeding; a holiday if we very much need one; weeks to recover in if
we are ill; protection from dependence upon other people; the power to
keep some one we love from suffering; and the joy of sometimes giving a
gift.
* * * * *
And now, a word more on the subject of choices.
In a little town I know, there live two old women. One will not go
to prayer meeting because she cannot afford to put five cents into
the collection basket; the other goes every week and contributes one
bright penny. She devoutly brightens it on a piece of old carpet before
she starts. As it is such a little gift, it must be made as fair as
possible.
There is a stern business principle in the whole of life. It is that
law of choice of which we spoke at first. If we have a thing, we must
in some way pay for it, we cannot have the thing and its price too. We
pay in various commodities: in work, in money, in time, in ability,
in thoughtfulness, in suffering; but in some way we pay. It is not a
harsh and ungenerous law; it is to be rejoiced in. God meant us to be
self-supporting, not objects of charity.
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