The Life and Death of Mrs. Maria Bickford: A beautiful female, who was inhumanly murdered, in the moral and religious city of Boston, on the night of the 27th of October, 1845, by Albert J. Tirrell, her paramour, arrested on board the Ship Sultana, off New Orleans, December 6thClergyman of Brunswick, Me.
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The Life and Death of Mrs. Maria Bickford: A beautiful female, who was inhumanly murdered, in the moral and religious city of Boston, on the night of the 27th of October, 1845, by Albert J. Tirrell, her paramour, arrested on board the Ship Sultana, off New Orleans, December 6th
Clergyman of Brunswick, Me.
Bickford, Mary Ann, 1824-1845; Murder -- Massachusetts -- Boston; Tirrell, Albert John, 1824-1880
We need not further minutely relate the remaining acts of her life. It
is known that, on the occasion of this visit to her grief-stricken
mother, chance made her acquainted with an honest and worthy man, who
became enamoured of her charms, and that this attachment soon resulted
in their marriage. This person was Mr. Bickford. He followed the trade
of a bootmaker, and was much respected by those who knew him. They lived
together upwards of two years, (though unhappily,) when she deserted her
husband and returned to Boston. The following paper, penned by her own
hand, will convey to the reader some idea of the state of her mind soon
after her marriage:
A SHORT DIARY AFTER MY MARRIAGE.
_August 10th._ I have been married just ten days. During that short
period, many circumstances have occurred, much tending to dispel the
illusive hopes so long and so lately cherished in my imagination and
fervent feelings. My husband is possessed of many rare qualities of mind
and heart, and he loves me with excessive earnestness. But I have now
discovered, what I could not, through infatuation, before marriage--that
those passions of his nature which won my admiration are barbed with
opposite extremes. At one time he loads me with caresses; at another
reviles with unbecoming satire. My petulant disposition impels a retort,
and hence frequent altercations. In moments of calmness I explain to him
how oppressive and deplorable are these recurrences. He relents with an
apology, and then calmly and sweetly do we reason together. Late
affectionate attachments are renewed, and a Divine Presence witnesseth
the communion of our hearts.
There are several considerations which render our marriage untimely and
unwise.
First. Our mutual acquaintance was too short. We did not at all canvass
each other’s faults; we rather strove to conceal and veil our eyes
before them,--too frequent and important mistakes of love-trapped young
people.
Secondly. Our religious predilections are much too dissimilar--he being
strictly Calvinistic, a religion to which I am sternly opposed. The mild
precepts of our beloved Saviour, and the sacred vows of the altar, are
thus desecrated by contention--a double curse.
Thirdly. We are much too poor.
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