The life and times of the Rev. John Wesley, M.A., founder of the Methodists. Vol. 2 (of 3)Tyerman, L. (Luke)
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The life and times of the Rev. John Wesley, M.A., founder of the Methodists. Vol. 2 (of 3)
Tyerman, L. (Luke)
Methodism; Wesley, John, 1703-1791
The letter, from which the above is copied, refutes Mr. Watson’s
assertion, that “Mrs. Vazeille was a woman of cultivated
understanding”; and confirms Mr. Jackson’s statement, that “neither in
understanding nor education was she worthy of the eminent man to whom
she was united.” Without altering the sense, we have been obliged to
revise both the orthography and syntax of the letter, in order to make
it at all fit to appear in print. Mrs. Wesley was evidently a woman of
no education, beyond the ability to read and write. Perhaps no better
description of her character, as a woman and a wife, can be furnished
than what is patent in the peevish, petulant, murmuring, miserable
letter just given. Here we leave her, simply adding that, after being
Wesley’s wife for a little more than thirty years, she died at the age
of seventy-one, on October 8, 1781.[136] Wesley, at the time, was in
the west of England; but writes, on October 12, as follows: “I came to
London, and was informed that my wife died on Monday. This evening she
was buried, though I was not informed of it till a day or two after.”
Her fortune, which, by losses and by fraud, had been reduced from
ten to five thousand pounds, she bequeathed to her son; and left her
husband nothing but a ring.[137] The epitaph on her tombstone describes
her as “a woman of exemplary piety, a tender parent, and a sincere
friend”; but is wisely silent concerning her conduct as a wife.
Perhaps more than enough has been already said. It must be remembered,
however, that John Wesley’s marriage affected and tinged thirty years
of his public life. It was one of the gravest events in his chequered
history; and, on this ground, it deserves attention. Wesley was not
faultless. He married too hurriedly to know the character of the woman
whom he made his wife; and he would have acted more wisely if he had
refrained from writing religious letters to female members of his
society, of whom his wife was jealous. This is all that can be fairly
alleged against him. No one will venture to affirm, that he was wanting
in affection; and no one can successfully accuse him of treating his
wife with coldness and reserve. Charles, a keen judge of character,
declared that nothing could surpass his brother’s patience in bearing
with his perverse and peevish spouse. Several of his letters to her,
written after their marriage, have been preserved; and display the
tenderest affection, and justify the opinion that, had it been his
happiness to be married to a woman that was worthy of him, he would
have been one of the most loving husbands that ever lived. The truth
is, John Wesley’s wife was scarcely sane. Mr. Jackson writes: “Scores
of documents in her handwriting attest the violence of her temper,
and warrant the conclusion, that there was in her a certain degree of
mental unsoundness.” This is the most merciful view that it is possible
to take of her strange behaviour. In no respect was she a helpmeet for
him.
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