The Life of Benjamin Franklin: With Many Choice Anecdotes and admirable sayings of this great man never before published by any of his biographersWeems, M. L. (Mason Locke)
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The Life of Benjamin Franklin: With Many Choice Anecdotes and admirable sayings of this great man never before published by any of his biographers
Weems, M. L. (Mason Locke)
Franklin, Benjamin, 1706-1790; Statesmen -- United States -- Biography
One cannot read this anecdote of our American sage without thinking of
Socrates' reply to King Archilaus, who had pressed him to give up
preaching in the dirty streets of Athens, and come and live with him
in his splendid courts--"_Meal, please your majesty, is a half penny a
peck at Athens, and water I can get for nothing._"
The letter ensuing was from Dr. Franklin to a friend of his, who
having displeased some of his relatives by marrying very early, wrote
to him for his opinion on that subject. Young bachelors would do well
to read it once a month.
ON EARLY MARRIAGES.
DEAR JACK,
From the marriages that have fallen under my observation, I am rather
inclined to think that _early_ ones stand the best chance for
happiness. The temper and habits of the young are not yet become so
stiff and uncomplying, as when more advanced in life; they form more
easily to each other, and hence, many occasions of disgust are
removed. And if youth has less of that prudence which is necessary to
manage a family, the parents and elder friends of young married
persons are generally at hand to afford their advice, which amply
supplies that defect. By early marriage youth is sooner formed to
regular and useful life; and possibly some of those accidents or
connexions that might have injured the constitution, or reputation, or
both, are thereby happily prevented. Particular circumstances of
particular persons, may sometimes make it prudent to delay entering
into that state; but in general, when nature has rendered our bodies
fit for it, the presumption is in nature's favour, that she has not
judged amiss in making us _desire_ it. Late marriages are often
attended too, with this inconvenience, that there is not the same
chance that the parents shall live to see their offspring educated.
"_Late children_," says the Spanish proverb, "_are early orphans_." A
melancholy reflection to those whose case it may be! With us in
America, marriages are generally in the morning of life; our children
are educated and settled in the world by noon; and thus, our business
done, we have an evening of cheerful leisure to ourselves.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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