The Life of Benjamin Franklin: With Many Choice Anecdotes and admirable sayings of this great man never before published by any of his biographersWeems, M. L. (Mason Locke)
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The Life of Benjamin Franklin: With Many Choice Anecdotes and admirable sayings of this great man never before published by any of his biographers
Weems, M. L. (Mason Locke)
Franklin, Benjamin, 1706-1790; Statesmen -- United States -- Biography
By these early marriages we are blessed with more children; and from
the mode among us, founded in nature, of every mother suckling her
own child, more of them are raised. Thence the swift progress of
population among us, unparalleled in Europe. In fine, I am glad you
are married, and congratulate you most cordially upon it. You are now
in the way of becoming a useful citizen; and you have escaped the
unnatural state of celibacy for life--the fate of many who never
intended it, but who having too long postponed the change of their
condition, find, at length, that it is too late to think of it, and
so live all their lives in a situation that greatly lessens a man's
value. An odd volume of a set of books bears not the value of its
proportion to the set: what think you of the _half_ of a pair of
scissors? it can't well cut anything; it may possibly serve to scrape
a trencher.
Pray make my best wishes acceptable to your bride. I am old and
heavy, or I should ere this have presented them in person. I shall
make but small use of the old man's privilege, that of giving _advice
to younger friends_. Treat your wife always with respect; it will
procure respect to you, not only from her, but from all that observe
it. Never use a slighting expression to her even in _jest_; for
slights in _jest_, after frequent bandyings, are apt to end in angry
_earnest_. Be studious in your profession, and you will be learned.
Be industrious and frugal, and you will be rich. Be sober and
temperate, and you will be healthy. Be virtuous, and you will be
happy. At least, you will, by such conduct, stand the best chance for
such consequences. I pray God to bless you both!
Your affectionate friend,
B. FRANKLIN.
As next to a GOOD WIFE, there is but "ONE THING" to be compared to a
_handsome fortune_, we advise our young countrymen to read the
following. It needs but be read to be valued, and it can hardly be
read and valued enough by all who know the value of INDEPENDENCE.
ADVICE TO A YOUNG TRADESMAN.
Remember that time is money. He that can earn ten shillings a day, by
his labour, and goes abroad, or sits idle one half of that day, though
he spends but six-pence during his diversion or idleness, ought not to
reckon _that_ the only expense; he has really spent, or rather thrown
away five shillings besides.
Remember that _credit_ is money. If a man let his money lie in my
hands, after it is due, he gives me the interest, or so much as I can
make of it, during that time. This amounts to a considerable sum where
a man has good and large credit, and makes good use of it.
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