The Life of Clara Barton, Founder of the American Red Cross (Vol. 2 of 2)Barton, William E. (William Eleazar)
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The Life of Clara Barton, Founder of the American Red Cross (Vol. 2 of 2)
Barton, William E. (William Eleazar)
American National Red Cross -- Biography; Barton, Clara, 1821-1912; Nurses -- United States -- Biography
a man of his profound learning and high character.” Her nephews then
believed that their respect for each other had merged into affection,
but, as the years went by and he and Clara gradually lost sight of
each other, they came to think that they might have been mistaken,
that the two were good friends and nothing more. So far as the author
is aware, there exists no evidence from which an answer can be had to
the question of how much they really cared for each other, or, if they
cared, why they did not marry. The author has his own conjecture, and
it is only a conjecture, but it is this: Both he and she were at that
time at the beginnings of a great work. How long either one would need
to continue to labor and sacrifice before success was won, neither
could determine.
The last and in some respects the most interesting, as certainly the
most distinguished, among Clara Barton’s matrimonial possibilities,
came to her late in life. During the Civil War she became acquainted
with a man who even then was held in high regard, and was attracting
the attention of his own State and to some extent of the Nation. Rising
largely by his own exertions to a position of eminence, he became one
of the leading men of the generation. Through all the years when she
was pursuing her war relief work, with scant appropriation for postage,
he cheerfully loaned her his frank and was her friend. Through many
long years they knew each other and always held each other in esteem.
He was in Washington and so was she, and there was little need of
interchange of letters between them; nor is there in the letters that
are preserved any indication of personal affection. Those letters
grew out of particular events when one or the other of them was away
from Washington, and for the most part they had no significance as
indicating the extent to which they may have cared for each other.
But there came a time when his work and her work brought them into
close and more constant relations. They were both at the zenith of
their respective careers. At that time he was a widower. Both were free
and they could have married without the sacrifice of any important
interest. The home which they might have established would have been a
congenial one.
At that time Clara Barton took a brief vacation and went to Oxford
where she prepared a new wardrobe, including a white satin dress. To
her niece Mamie she confided that an occasion of unusual significance
was in prospect, and that more would be known of it later.
Just at this time this distinguished statesman died. His death was a
great shock to Clara Barton. She made no public lamentation; she never
hinted even to those who were nearest to her that her grief was other
than that which she might properly feel for an honored friend of many
years. Her nieces believed that his death prevented their marriage. Her
nephew, Stephen, says:
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