The Life of Me: An AutobiographyJohnson, Clarence Edgar
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The Life of Me: An Autobiography
Johnson, Clarence Edgar
Fisher County (Tex.) -- Biography; Fisher County (Tex.) -- History; Johnson family; Johnson, Clarence Edgar, 1906-1994
The game was easy to get started. All it took was a girl and a
boy to stand in the middle of the room and hold hands, facing
each other. Then the girls would "volunteer" one of their crowd
and push her forward to be "it." Then the "it" girl would circle
the room looking for the boy she wanted for a partner. When she
found him, she would snap her fingers in front of his face, just
as you would in school when you wanted to get the teacher's
attention.
This snap told the boy that he was her chosen, at least for a few
minutes. As soon as she snapped her fingers, she would hurry to
the couple in the middle of the room and the boy she "snapped"
would chase after her. His object was to touch the girl, and her
object was to try to prevent his touching her.
She would try to prolong the chase by dodging and sometimes
swinging around the couple in the center of the room. And
sometimes the couple would prolong the chase by favoring the
girl. They might raise their arms to let the girl go through
between them and then lower their arms quickly to stop the boy.
Or, if the boy was having a hard time catching her, they might
let her start through between them and then lower their arms
quickly and trap her in their arms.
As soon as the boy touched the girl, the chase was ended. Then
the couple who had held hands would leave and let the new couple
hold hands in the center of the room while another chase took
place.
This was not only a holding-hands game, at times it became a
body-
contact game. And yet, not too much contact, because the grown-
ups were watching. Anyway, snap was a popular game at our
parties.
Now, this Friday night the party might be at the Johnsons, but
before the party was over, you could bet good money that the
teen-
agers would have talked another family into giving a party next
Friday night.
These were strictly play parties. There were no refreshments
served, not a lot of cooking and fixing. Just make sure the
house is clean, the yard is clean, and there are plenty of places
to park buggies, hacks, and wagons. Then hope a big crowd begins
gathering soon after sundown.
Parties were preferred over dances because it was considered
immoral for a boy to put his arm around a girl before they were
married. Sweethearts could hold hands in the presence of adults,
if it were in the process of playing a game. But just to sit
this one out and hold hands was unthinkable.
A "good" mother would never tell her daughter it was all right
for her to hold hands in public, or to hug and kiss anywhere, on
her way to church or anywhere else, either afoot or in a buggy--
not even at night.
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