Bracciolini, Poggio, 1380-1459; Italy -- History -- 1268-1492
When Poggio, smiling at these remarks of Niccolo, is preparing to reply
to them, he is interrupted by his friend Carlo, who begs from him
permission to undertake the management of the cause of the aged gentlemen
who become the votaries of Hymen; and, this being granted to him, he
begins his speech by making a personal attack upon Niccolo, who, he
alleges, has declined to enter into the married state by an unreasonable
timidity of spirit, and an unaccommodating austerity of temper. But
if all men were to follow his example, they would manifestly act in
disobedience to the first law of nature, which provides for the continued
propagation of the human species, and they would moreover grossly
neglect the duty which they owe to the state to which they belong, which
demands from them that succession of virtuous citizens by whom alone its
rights and liberties can be maintained. As to the cares and avocations
of matrimony breaking in upon literary occupations, Carlo reminds his
adversary that this was not the case with Plato, with Aristotle, with
Theophratus, Cato the elder, Cicero, and many others of the ancients
distinguished by the extent of their learning. Matrimony also, which
Niccolo has vilified as a species of servitude, preserves a man from that
licentiousness of conduct which is the worst kind of slavery in which
he can be enthralled. Moreover, if any elderly man be united to a young
woman, his wisdom will be a guide to her inexperience—his prudence will
teach her to restrain her appetites, and his example will in every case
afford her instruction and encouragement in the regulation of her conduct
in life.
On Niccolo’s appealing with a smile to the experience of Carlo himself,
and asking him whether he has not known old men who have been more
foolish than boys, and whether people of this description are not very
unsafe guides in the discharge of moral and political duties, the latter
replies that he pleads not on the behalf of foolish people of any
age; but that he is ready to assert as a general principle, that the
matrimonial union is singularly well adapted to promote the happiness of
an elderly man. Young folks, he says, are unable to regulate themselves;
much less are they qualified to govern others. What, then, will be
the consequence of an union of two parties, each of which is totally
inexperienced in the management of human affairs, but the pressure of
poverty, and its attendant train of miseries? But the man who is ripe in
years will support the weakness of his wife, and instruct her ignorance
in the ordering of their domestic concerns, and will abate in her the
effervescence of passion by the inculcation of the lessons of virtue.
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