Bracciolini, Poggio, 1380-1459; Italy -- History -- 1268-1492
Enlarging on these ideas, and more particularly analyzing Niccolo’s
objections to the marriage of men advanced in years, Carlo boldly
maintains, that it is expedient for a person of this description not
only to marry, but also to marry a young woman, whom he may mold like
wax to his will. As to sensual indulgences—whilst so many examples are
seen of the total abstinence from them which is practised in convents and
nunneries, why should any doubt be entertained, that a well-instructed
female will cheerfully submit to that restricted enjoyment of them which
circumstances may demand from her? As to the little likelihood of an aged
parent living to see his offspring settled in the world, Carlo demurs to
the fact, and asserts that longevity is fully as likely to follow upon
the temperance of mature age as upon the careless dissoluteness of youth.
“But granting,” says he, “that the remaining years of an old man are few
in number, will he not, nevertheless, derive the greatest pleasure from
his children, whom it will be a gratification to him to train to good
manners, at a period when they are much more disposed to revere their
parent, and to obey him, than they are likely to be when growing strength
and self-confidence shall have rendered them more independent of parental
controul?”
Fortifying his doctrine by the test of facts, Carlo appeals, in proof
of the soundness of the principles which he is maintaining, not only to
the domestic history of Cato the Elder and of Cicero, but still more
especially to that of Galeazzo Malatesta, who, having married a young
wife in the seventy-fourth year of his age, left behind him at his death
four sons, who became the most illustrious men of all Italy, and one of
whom, Carlo, was no less celebrated for his literary accomplishments than
for his prowess in war.—“These illustrious characters,” says he, “were,
indeed, virtuous by nature; but they were not a little indebted for the
renown which they obtained in their maturer years, to the instructions
which they received in their early youth from their father. The wise
exhortations of an aged parent have, in my opinion,” continues he, “great
efficacy in the right training of children—a greater efficacy, indeed,
than if they fell from the lips of persons of unripe years—for it is to
advanced age that we look for gravity and experience.” After enlarging
on this topic, Carlo draws from his reasonings the conclusion, that
both on public and on private grounds, it is expedient that elderly men
should quit the state of celibacy, and that they should marry youthful
wives. “It is,” he observes, “an unspeakable advantage in life, for a
man to have a partner to whom, as to a second self, he may communicate
his counsels and his joys, and who, by sympathizing in, may mitigate
his sorrows. Nor is it to be doubted,” says he, “that a wife of this
description will continue to love her husband as long as he loves her,
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