The literature of kissing : $b gleaned from history, poetry, fiction, and anecdoteBombaugh, Charles C. (Charles Carroll)
History
The literature of kissing : $b gleaned from history, poetry, fiction, and anecdote
Bombaugh, Charles C. (Charles Carroll)
Kissing
Xenophon says, in “Agesilaus” (v. 4), that it was a national custom with
the Persians to kiss whomsoever they honored. And Herodotus (i. 134),
in speaking of their manners and customs, says, “If Persians meet at any
time by accident, the rank of each party is easily discovered: if they
are of equal dignity, they salute each other on the mouth; if one is an
inferior, they only kiss the cheek; if there be a great difference in
situation, the inferior falls prostrate on the ground.” Respecting the
mode of salutation between relatives, the following passage from the
“Cyropædia” of Xenophon (i. 4) is worth transcribing:
“If I may be allowed to relate a sportive affair, it is said that when
Cyrus went away, and he and his relations parted, they took their leave,
and dismissed him with a kiss, according to the Persian custom,—for
the Persians practise it to this day,—and that a certain Mede, a very
excellent person, had been long struck with the beauty of Cyrus, and when
he saw Cyrus’s relations kiss him, he stayed behind, and, when the rest
were gone, accosted Cyrus, and said to him, ‘And am I, Cyrus, the only
one of all your relations that you do not know?’ ‘What!’ said Cyrus,
‘are you a relation?’ ‘Yes,’ said he. ‘This was the reason, then,’ said
Cyrus, ‘that you used to gaze at me; for I think I recollect that you
frequently did so.’ ‘I was very desirous,’ said he, ‘to salute you, but I
was always ashamed to do it.’ ‘But,’ said Cyrus, ‘you that are a relation
ought not to have been so.’ So, coming up to him, he kissed him. The
Mede, having received the kiss, is said to have, asked this question:
‘And is it a custom among the Persians to kiss relations?’ ‘It is so,’
said Cyrus, ‘when they see one another at some distance of time, or when
they part.’ ‘Then,’ said the Mede, ‘it seems now to be time for you to
kiss me again; for, as you see, I am just going away.’ So Cyrus, kissing
him again, dismissed him, and went his way. They had not gone very far
before the Mede came up with him again, with his horse all over in a
sweat; and Cyrus, getting sight of him, said, ‘What! have you forgotten
anything that you had a mind to say to me?’ ‘No, by Jove,’ said he, ‘but
I am come again at a distance of time.’ ‘Dear relation,’ said he, ‘it is
a very short time.’ ‘How a short one?’ said the Mede: ‘do you not know,
Cyrus, that the very twinkling of my eyes is a long time to be without
seeing you, you who are so lovely?’ Here Cyrus, from being in tears,
broke out into laughter, bid him go his way and take courage, adding that
in a little time he would be with him again, and that then he would be
at liberty to look at him, if he pleased, with steady eyes and without
twinkling.”
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The kiss among the ancients was an essential implement in the armory of
love. Virgil, for instance, uses it in the device by which Queen Dido
was to be inspired with a passion for Æneas. Venus, in the course of her
instructions to Cupid, says:
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