Women -- History; Women -- Psychology; Women -- Social conditions
What story could be better than this to secure sympathy for the mother
of too many daughters and contumely for the irritated father; the
touch of mysticism, the supernatural sphere in which it was placed,
would render a man quite helpless.
The story of the Devil Baby, evolved in response to the imperative
needs of anxious wives and mothers, recalls the theory that woman first
fashioned the fairy story, that combination of wisdom and romance,
in an effort to tame her mate and to make him a better father to her
children, until such stories finally became a crude creed for domestic
conduct, softening the treatment men accorded to women. Because such
stories, expressing the very essence of human emotion, did not pretend
to imitate the outside of life, they were careless of verisimilitude
and absolutely indifferent to the real world. They did, however, meet
an essential requirement of the good story, in that they dealt with
fundamental experiences.
These first pitiful efforts of women were so widespread and powerful
that we have not yet escaped their influence. As subconscious memories,
they still cast vague shadows upon the vast spaces of life, shadows
that are dim and distorted because of their distant origin. They remind
us that for thousands of years women had nothing to oppose against
unthinkable brutality save “the charm of words,” no other implement
with which to subdue the fiercenesses of the world about them. Only
through words could they hope to arouse the generosity of strength,
to secure a measure of pity for themselves and their children, to so
protect the life they had produced that “the precious vintage stored
from their own agony” might not wantonly be spilled upon the ground.
Possibly the multitude of life’s failures, the obscure victims of
unspeakable wrong and brutality, have embodied their memories in a
literature of their own, of which the story of the Devil Baby is a
specimen, crude and ugly in form, as would be inevitable, but still
bringing relief to the surcharged heart.
During the weeks that the Devil Baby drew multitudes of visitors to
Hull-House, my mind was opened to the fact that new knowledge derived
from concrete experience is continually being made available for the
guidance of human life; that humble women are still establishing rules
of conduct as best they may, to counteract the base temptations of a
man’s world. I saw a new significance in the fact that thousands of
women, for instance, make it a standard of domestic virtue that a man
must not touch his pay envelope, but bring it home unopened to his
wife. High praise is contained in the phrase, “We have been married
twenty years and he never once opened his own envelope,” or covert
blame in the statement, “Of course he got to gambling; what can you
expect from a man who always opens his own pay?”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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