The Love Affairs of Lord ByronGribble, Francis Henry
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The Love Affairs of Lord Byron
Gribble, Francis Henry
Byron, George Gordon Byron, Baron, 1788-1824 -- Relations with women; Poets, English -- 19th century -- Biography
"I was seated near a woman to whom, when a boy, I was as much attached
as boys generally are, and more than a man should be. I knew this
before I went, and was determined to be valiant and converse with
_sang froid_; but instead I forgot my valour and my nonchalance, and
never opened my lips even to laugh, far less to speak, and the lady
was almost as absurd as myself, which made both the object of more
observation than if we had conducted ourselves with easy indifference.
You will think all this great nonsense; if you had seen it, you would
have thought it still more ridiculous. What fools we are! We cry for a
plaything which, like children, we are never satisfied with till we
break open, though, like them, we cannot get rid of it by putting it
on the fire."
That is the prose record of the meeting, and there is also a record in
verse. There are lines "to a lady on being asked my reason for quitting
England in the Spring"; there is the piece beginning, "Well! thou art
happy":
"_Mary, adieu! I must away:
While thou art blest I'll not repine;
But near thee I can never stay;
My heart would soon again be thine._"
And also:
"_In flight I shall be surely wise,
Escaping from temptation's snare;
I cannot view my Paradise
Without the wish of dwelling there._"
Poor stuff, as poetry, it will be agreed. Any one who wrote poetry at all
might have written it. The sentiment rendered in it is just the sentiment
which any sentimental youth would have felt to be proper to the occasion.
We can find in it, at most, only the faint fore-running shadow of the
Byronic pose. It rings very insincerely if we set it beside the lines in
which Walter Savage Landor, at about the same period, commemorated a
similar moment of emotion:
"_Rose Aylmer, whom these waking eyes
May weep but never see;
A night of memories and of sighs
I consecrate to thee._"
In that comparison, most decidedly, all the advantage is with
Landor--inevitably, because his were the feelings of a man, whereas
Byron's were the feelings of a boy. He was only twenty, and his age is the
explanation of a good deal. It explains his startled timidity, described
in the letter to Hodgson, in a novel, romantic situation. It explains his
hugging his grief as a precious possession on no account to be let go. It
also explains the zest with which, when grief had had its sacred hour, he
could turn from it and throw himself into other activities.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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