Kuki (Indic people); Lushai (Asian people); Lushai language
At an Aimol wedding two thempus are necessary--one of the bridegroom's,
and one of the bride's family. Each kills a cock, the feathers of
which are tied round the necks of the happy pair, after which there
is the usual orgy. The Chiru and Tikhup custom is almost identical,
but the village thempu officiates alone. Among the Kolhen, the
young man's mother makes six visits to the parents of her future
daughter-in-law, taking an offering of zu, and being accompanied by her
eldest son-in-law or other male relative, and on the last occasion by
two or three women. Two days after the last visit, the price is fixed,
and the day for the ceremony chosen by the bridegroom's father and the
village officials. The bridegroom, on the day before that fixed for
the marriage, goes to the girl's house, accompanied by several male
friends, and makes a present of three pots of zu to her parents. The
next morning the bride, accompanied by the unmarried girls of the
village, goes to her future home, taking with her two jars of zu,
a hen, a piece of ginger, a dog, a strap for carrying loads, a new
cloth, and a bracelet. She parts from her friends, with many tears,
on the doorstep of her new home. The khulpu decapitates a fowl
and throws it down; if the right leg falls over the left a happy
married life is assured. The night is spent in singing and dancing,
and the following night in the same way, but in the house of the
bride, who on the next morning quits her father's house for good. On
the day of the marriage the bride and bridegroom must not leave the
village. This taking of omens by killing a cock is practised by the
Lamgang and Kom. Where marriage is not by service the preliminaries
in all clans resemble much those among the Kolhen. Among the Vaiphei,
and, I think, in some other clans, the young man has to give a feast
to the young men frequenting the same dormitory. A similar custom
is described in Fielding Hall's "The Inward Light," page 104, as
existing in Burma. "It is an old custom for the village boys to band
themselves together in a company.... But when one marries he ceases
to belong to the company, for he is about to enter into another and a
wider life. He is a deserter and a traitor to his fellows. Therefore
they lay in wait for him and caught him as he went home at night,
and, taking him without the village gate, they tried him and found
him guilty. With mock ceremony he was condemned to be turned out
from their ranks, and to pay a fine wherewith his comrades might
drown their sorrow at his desertion. Then with laughter and song,
to the light of torches, they took him home in long procession."
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