How many have an unholy pleasure in finding a brother in the
wrong--blazing abroad his failings; administering rebuke, not in gentle
forbearance and kindly expostulation, but with harsh and impatient
severity! How beautifully did Jesus unite intense sensibility to sin,
along with tenderest compassion for the sinner, showing in this that
"He knoweth our frame!" Many a scholar needs gentleness in
chastisement. The reverse would crush a sensitive spirit, or drive it to
despair. Jesus tenderly "considers" the case of those He disciplines,
"tempering the wind to the shorn lamb." In the picture of the good
shepherd bearing home the wandering sheep, He illustrated by parable
what He had often and again taught by His own example. No word of
needless harshness or upbraiding uttered to the erring wanderer!
Ingratitude is too deeply felt to need rebuke! In silent love, "He lays
it on His shoulders rejoicing."
Reader! seek to mingle gentleness in all your rebukes; bear with the
infirmities of others; make allowance for constitutional frailties;
never say harsh things, if kind things will do as well; do not
unnecessarily lacerate with recalling former delinquencies. In reproving
another, let us rather feel how much we need reproof ourselves.
"Consider thyself," is a searching Scripture motto for dealing with an
erring brother. Remember thy Lord's method of silencing fierce
accusation--"Let him that is without sin cast the first stone."
Moreover, anger and severity are not the successful means of reclaiming
the backslider, or of melting the obdurate. Like the _smooth_ stones
with which David smote Goliath, _gentle_ rebukes are generally the most
powerful. The old fable of the traveller and his cloak has a moral here
as in other things. The genial sunshine will effect its removal sooner
than the rough tempest. It was said of Leighton, that "he rebuked faults
so mildly, that they were never repeated, not because the admonished
were afraid, but ashamed to do so."
"ARM YOURSELVES LIKEWISE WITH THE SAME MIND."
Fourteenth Day.
ENDURANCE IN CONTRADICTION.
"Who endured such contradiction of sinners against Himself."--
Heb. xii. 3.
What endurance was this! Perfect truth in the midst of error; perfect
love in the midst of ingratitude and coldness; perfect rectitude in the
midst of perjury, violence, fraud; perfect constancy in the midst of
contumely and desertion; perfect innocence, confronting every debased
form of depravity and guilt; perfect patience, encountering every
species of gross provocation--"oppressed and afflicted, He opened not
His mouth!" "For my love" (in return for my love), "they are mine
adversaries; _but_" (see His endurance!--the only species of revenge of
which His sinless nature was capable) "_I give myself unto prayer!_"
(Ps. cix. 4.)
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