The modern malady : $b or, Sufferers from "nerves"Bennett, Cyril
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The modern malady : $b or, Sufferers from "nerves"
Bennett, Cyril
Neurasthenia
It is sometimes urged that much sympathy is a bad thing, not only for
its possessor, but for those with whom he comes in contact. Persons who
give indiscriminately to beggars, who make a great show of superficial
pity and affection, or who shed tears on the smallest provocation--all,
in short, who, from nervous disorder or congenital weakness, are wanting
in judgment and self-control, are almost invariably classed with highly
developed people of large emotional natures.
As a matter of fact, the two classes have nothing in common. Any poor
lunatic, whose injured nerve-centres are incapable of disposing
healthily of the full amount of energy generated, can manifest an excess
of superficial emotion. It is noteworthy that the very people who save
themselves trouble by giving to beggars without careful inquiry into the
merits of the case will save themselves trouble in other respects at the
expense of their fellow-creatures, and that those who harrow others by a
needless and self-indulgent emotional display are precisely those who
will abundantly prove their selfishness and shallowness of feeling so
soon as any sacrifice is demanded of them.
On the other hand, we sometimes find that the most truly sympathetic
people earn for themselves a quite undeserved reputation for hardness,
for it is not always either wise or kind to show all the sympathy we
feel. Only the largest natures can rise superior to their innate love of
approbation; only those who are really actuated by a desire to benefit
humanity can resist the temptation to flatter weakness when there is
anything to be gained by so doing. The most successful in this respect
run the greatest risk of misconception. Self-control is regarded as want
of feeling; unselfishness may appear like indifference. In dealing with
the nervous, virtue must often be satisfied with its own reward. After
all, the reward is a large one. It is nothing less than the cure of our
patient.
Continued unselfish action is the only sufficient test of deep feeling.
The tree is known by its fruit. The world is full of mimetic people who
can speak so well and write so well as to deceive the very elect, should
these be so simple as to judge them by their professions. Unhappily the
elect too often forget the injunction to acquire the wisdom of the
serpent.
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