Now, to the extent that we sincerely
hate wrong we shall be stirred up to diminish its power over others as
well as over ourselves; we shall, for instance, be moved to save the
evil doer who has just injured us from the tyranny of his evil nature;
we shall aspire to become the moral physicians of those who have hurt
us. And precisely because they have hurt us, they have a unique claim on
us. We who know better than others the extent of their disease are
called upon more than others to labor with a view to their cure. In this
connection the rule of returning good for evil should be explained. This
rule does not apply alike in all cases, though the spirit of it should
always inspire our actions. If a pickpocket should steal our purse, it
would be folly to hand him a check for twice the amount he has just
stolen. If a hardened criminal should draw his knife and wound us in the
back, it would be absurd to request him kindly to stab us in the breast
also. We should in this case not be _curing_ him, but simply confirming
him in his evil doing. The rule is: Try to free the sinner from the
power of sin. In some cases this is best accomplished by holding his
hand, as it were, and preventing him from carrying out the intended
wrong. In other cases by depriving him of his liberty for a season,
subjecting him to wholesome discipline, and teaching him habits of
industry. Only in the case of those who have already attained a higher
moral plane, and whose conscience is sensitive, does the rule of
returning good for evil apply literally. If a brother has acted in an
unbrotherly way toward you, do you on the next occasion act wholly in a
brotherly way toward him. You will thereby show him how he ought to have
acted and awaken the better nature in him.
Certain practical rules for the control of anger may be given to the
pupil. Suppress the signs of anger; you will thereby diminish its force.
Try to gain time: "When you are angry, count ten before you speak; when
you are very angry, count a hundred." Having gained time, examine
rigorously into your own conduct. Ask yourself whether you have not been
partly to blame. If you find that you have, then, instead of venting
your wrath on your enemy, try rather to correct the fault which has
provoked hostility. But if, after honest self-scrutiny, you are able to
acquit yourself, then you can all the more readily act the part of the
moral physician, for it is the innocent who find it easiest to forgive.
It is also useful to cite examples of persons who, like Socrates, have
exhibited great self-control in moments of anger; and to quote proverbs
treating of anger, to explain these proverbs and to cause them to be
committed to memory. I advise, indeed, that proverbs be used in
connection with all the moral lessons. Of the manner in which they are
to be used I shall speak later on.
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