The last of the present group of duties which we shall discuss relates
to the feelings of vanity, pride, humility. Vanity is a feeling of
self-complacency based on external advantages. A person is vain of his
dress or of his real or supposed personal charms. The peacock is the
type of vanity. Though the admiration of others ministers to vanity, yet
it is possible to be vain by one's self--before a mirror, for instance.
The feeling of pride, on the other hand, depends upon a comparison
between self and others. Pride implies a sense of one's own superiority
and of the inferiority of others. Both feelings are anti-moral. They
spring, like moral cowardice and anger, from the false belief that this
little self of ours is of very great importance. There is no such thing
as proper pride or honest pride. The word pride used in this connection
is a misnomer. Vanity is spurious self-esteem based on external
advantages. Pride is spurious self-esteem based on comparison with
others. Genuine self-esteem is based on the consciousness of a
distinction which we share with all humanity--namely, the capacity and
the duty of rational development. This genuine self-esteem has two
aspects--the one positive, the other negative. The positive aspect is
called dignity, the negative humility. True dignity and true humility
always go together. The sense of dignity arises within us when we
remember the aims to which as human beings we are pledged; the sense of
humility can not fail to arise when we consider how infinitely in
practice we all fall below those aims. Thus while pride depends on a
comparison of ourselves with others, the genuinely moral feeling is
excited when we consider our relation to the common ends of mankind. On
the one hand, we are indeed privileged to pursue those ends, and are
thereby exalted above all created things and above the whole of the
natural world with all its stars and suns. Upon this consideration is
founded the sense of dignity. On the other hand, we can not but own how
great is the distance which separates even the best of us from the goal,
and this gives rise to a deep sense of humility. The rule of conduct
which we are considering is a rule of proper self-estimation. Estimate
thy worth not by external advantages nor by thy pre-eminence above
others, but by the degree of energy with which thou pursuest the moral
aims. To mark off the distinction between vanity and pride on the one
hand and dignity on the other, the teacher may contrast in detail the
lives of Alcibiades and Socrates.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account