The Mother of Washington and Her TimesPryor, Sara Agnes Rice
History
The Mother of Washington and Her Times
Pryor, Sara Agnes Rice
Virginia -- Social life and customs; Washington, Mary Ball, 1708-1789
In presenting these pictures of social life in Virginia in the
eighteenth century, I have been careful to accept the testimony
only of those who were actually a part of it. It has become the
fashion to idealize that old society as something better than our
own. It had its charm of stateliness, of punctilious etiquette,
of cordial hospitality; its faults of pompous manner, of excess
and vanity, differing as conditions have changed, only in type and
expression, from similar blemishes in our own manners of to-day;
neither better nor worse, perhaps, as the years have passed. In all
that is understood by the word "society" we find many points of
resemblance, a family likeness, in fact, to metropolitan society in
the nineteenth century.
Has the reader ever sought an intelligent definition of the term
"society"?
"Society," says Noah Webster, "is specifically the more cultivated
portion of any community, in its social relations and influence;
those who give and receive formal entertainments mutually." This
sounds reasonable enough, but the literary world of to-day, if we
may credit some of its shining lights, takes exception at the word
"cultivated."
"Society," says Bishop Huntington, in his "Drawing-room Homily,"
"is something too formless for an institution, too irregular for
an organization, too vital for a machine, too heartless for a
fraternity, too lawless for a school. It is a state wherein all
realism is suppressed as brutal, all natural expression or frank
sign of true feeling as distasteful and startling. Its subjects are
more prostrate than the slaves of the East before the Padishah! The
individual finds everything decided for him. Provided he imitates
copies, and repeats his models, he knows all that he need know, and
has entered into salvation."
Evidently, neither now, nor in the Arcadian days of Virginia's
Golden Age, has society seen fit to adopt the motto inscribed on
the palace gates of the young Alexander Severus, "Let none enter
here save the pure in heart." One, than whom none knows it better,
has declared it to be to-day "a garden of flowers where 'sweets
compacted lie.' But underneath the roses lurks a subtle and venomous
serpent whose poison already threatens the fair and beloved of the
land."
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