The Mother's Manual of Children's Diseases — John Shaqi
The Mother's Manual of Children's DiseasesWest, Charles
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The Mother's Manual of Children's Diseases
West, Charles
Pediatrics -- Handbooks, manuals, etc.
One more point I must insist on before going into details, and that is
as to the necessity of perfect truthfulness in dealing with sick
children. The foolish device of telling a child when ill, that the
doctor who has been sent for is its uncle or its cousin, is the outcome
of the still more foolish falsehood of threatening the child with the
doctor's visit if it does not do this or that. No endeavour should be
spared by nurse or parent, or by the doctor himself, to render his visit
popular in the nursery. Three-fourths of the difficulties which attend
the administration of medicine are commonly the result of previous bad
management of the child, of foolish over-indulgence, or of still more
foolish want of truthfulness. It may answer once to tell a child that
medicine is nice when really it is nasty, but the trick will scarcely
succeed a second time, and the one success will increase your
difficulties ever after. If medicine is absolutely necessary, and the
child is too young to understand reason, it must be given by force, very
firmly but very kindly, and the grief it occasions will be forgotten in
an hour or two. If he is old enough, tell him that the medicine is
ordered to do him good, and firmness combined with gentleness will
usually succeed in inducing him to take it. The advantage of perfect
truthfulness extends to every incident in the illness of children, even
to the not saying, 'Oh, you will soon be well,' if it is not likely so
to be. If children find you never deceive them, how implicitly they will
_trust_ you, what an infinity of trouble is saved, and how much rest of
mind is secured to the poor little sufferer!
A little boy three years old was ordered to be cupped. The cupper, a
kind old man, said to encourage him, 'Oh, dear little boy, it's
nothing.' The child turned to his mother, saying, 'Mummy, is that true?'
His mother said it was not, but that for her sake she hoped he would try
to bear it well. And the operation was performed without a cry or a
sound.
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