The Mother's Manual of Children's DiseasesWest, Charles
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The Mother's Manual of Children's Diseases
West, Charles
Pediatrics -- Handbooks, manuals, etc.
But, moreover, sudden shocks may sometimes overthrow the whole moral
equilibrium, and disarrange the balance of the nervous system so
seriously as to cause the death of a child previously free from any
important ailment. Thus, I remember a little boy five years of age who
died sixteen days after his father's funeral. The strange sad scene
overcame him, though there had been no special tie between him and his
father. He shivered violently, became very sick, complained by signs of
pain in the head, for he had lost his speech, which he regained by slow
degrees in the course of four or five days. Improvement in other
respects did not take place, he lay in a drowsy state save when he
called for his mother, and at length the drowsiness deepened into
stupor, and so he died. I suppose his mother was right; she said his
heart was broken.
It behoves us to bear in mind that the heart may break, or the reason
fail, under causes that seem to us quite insufficient; that the griefs
of childhood may be, in proportion to the child's powers of bearing
them, as overwhelming as those which break the strong man down. Every
now and then we are shocked by the tale that some young child has
committed suicide, and for reasons which to our judgment seem most
trivial--from fear of punishment, or even from mere dread of reproof.
These facts deserve special attention, they show how much more the
susceptibility and sensitiveness of children need to be taken into
consideration than is commonly done.
This keenness of the emotions in children displays itself in other ways,
and has constantly to be borne in mind in our management of them. The
child loves intensely, or dislikes strongly; craves most earnestly for
sympathy, clings most tenaciously to the stronger, better, higher around
it, or to what it fancies so; or shrinks, in often causeless but
unconquerable dread, from things or persons that have made on it an
unpleasant impression. Reason as yet does not govern its caprices, nor
the more intelligent selfishness of later years hinder their
manifestation. The waywardness of the most wilful child is determined by
some cause near at hand; and those who love children, and can read their
thoughts, will not in general be long in discovering their motives and
seeing through their conduct.
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