Nothing more need be said of contraceptive measures than this: they are
inevitably increasing in use and soon will be part of the average
marriage. Society must recognize this, and the lawmakers must legalize
what they themselves practise.
Matrimony, the home, woman, these are nodal points in the network of our
human lives. But they are not fixed centers, and the great weaver, Time,
changes the design constantly. Through them run the threads of the great
instincts, of tradition, of economic change, of the ideas, ideals, and
activities of man the restless. Man will always love woman, woman will
always love man; children will be born and reared, and sex conflict,
maladjustment, will always be secondary to these great facts. How men
and women will live together, how they will arrange for the children,
will be questions that women will help the world answer as well as their
mates. That the main trend of things is for better, more ethical, more
just relationship, I do not doubt. The secondary, most noisy changes
are perhaps evil, the main primary change is good.
Meanwhile in the hurly-burly of new things, of complex relationships,
working blindly, is the nervous housewife. This book has been written
that she may know herself better and thus move towards the light; that
her husband may win sympathy and understanding and be bound to her in a
closer, better union, and that the physician and Society may seek the
direct and the remote means to helping her.
INDEX
Alcoholism and housewife, 157
Anger, 88
Beauty, loss of, 88
Birth control, 14-16
Birth control measures and nervousness, 137
Cases, treatment of, 231-243
Child and cartoons, 113
and movies, 111
Childbearing and modern woman, 15
Children and the neurosis, 97-115
Daydreaming, 81
Diet and Cooking, 259
Disagreeable, reaction to the, 90
Divorce, 13
Emotions, effects of, 27-30; 42-45
Engagement period, 229
Extravagance of the housewife, 145
Fear, 93
Feminism and individualization of woman, 10-13
Happiness and high cost of living, 151
Histories of cases:
case with bad hygiene, 183-187
hyperæsthetic woman, 187-193
over-rich, purposeless type, 177-181
overworked, under-rested type, 171-177
physically ill type, 181-183
Holmes, Oliver Wendell, 5
Home,
aboriginal, 5
faults of, 225
future of, 250
isolation of, 77
Household conflicts, 141-159
Housewife,
hyperæsthetic type of, 51
non-domestic type of, 61
overconscientious type of, 53
overemotional type of, 57
physically ill, 69
previously neurotic, 65
types predisposed to nervousness, 47-73
Housewife and abnormal child, 107
and childbearing, 99
and neglect, 153
and poverty, 117
Housewife of past generation, 3
Housework,
evolution of, 5-10
nature of, 75
Housework and factory, 9
Husband and housewife, 127
Hysteria, 35
Jealousy and envy, 123
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