The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cureBousfield, Paul
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The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cure
Bousfield, Paul
Mental healing; Psychoanalysis
After its first rude awakening, let us once more see what happens. It
is wrapped up in something warm; that is, it is returned to a semblance
of the womb, by having something round it which keeps out the cold. It
is gently rocked to and fro by the nurse or other attendant, and again
the semblance of the previous rocking in the womb is returned to it.
Crooning sounds are murmured over it, and the semblance is still more
complete. It frequently draws its knees up somewhat if it is placed in
such a position that it can do so with ease, and falls asleep. It has
attained as nearly as possible once more the semblance of its pre-birth
condition, where it has no cares, and is warm and comfortable again.
And though it has become acquainted with effort, it is quite obvious
that its feeling of omnipotence, if we may so term it for the moment,
is hardly yet disturbed, and the world it has come into differs but
slightly from the world which it has left; it is still a world in which
the infant is the centre and ruler, in which its every want is attended
to without an effort on its part, save that it may sometimes have to
call attention to its wants by means of that magical cry which it soon
learns how and when to use, and which acts in a truly magical manner in
accomplishing the fulfilment of all its desires.
During the first few weeks of the infant’s life this delusion on the
part of the child is largely kept up. Few people think there is any
harm in attending to all a baby’s wants in the first month of its
life. They do not think it could possibly be wrong to spoil it at that
age, because its intellect has not developed. They forget entirely
that its mental condition and attitude towards life, apart from actual
thought, may inevitably be affected at this period. Hence, whenever
the baby cries, it is not uncommonly rocked to sleep, or fed, or if
it holds out its hand and shows its desire to possess anything, it is
immediately allowed to possess it, and to play with it. It has to make
but the faintest attempts to adjust itself to its environment, it has
to face but the slightest reality; all its desires are immediately
fulfilled, and kept in a condition of almost continual fulfilment. And
it may remain for a considerable period as near being an omnipotent
creature as it is possible for any living thing to be. Its omnipotence,
however, is really a fallacy, or as I prefer to term it at a slightly
later stage, a phantasy, for the world in which it lived before birth,
which seemed to it as a world, was not really a world at all, but a
very small and a very temporary abode, and the world in which it is
living for the first few months after birth is again not really a world
but a combination of extremely limited and carefully selected portions
of the world, in which every attempt is made to disguise from it the
realities of the actual world.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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