The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cure — John Shaqi
The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cureBousfield, Paul
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The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cure
Bousfield, Paul
Mental healing; Psychoanalysis
The child should be fed at regular and proper intervals, and should
be kept warm. But if it cries, as it will do naturally, it should be
left to itself to cry. It should not be picked up, rocked to sleep,
given another meal nor petted. If it is left to cry, it will learn very
rapidly and at the right period of its life that the sounds which it
emits are not magical, and it will begin to adapt itself to the fact
that it lives in a real world which has not been built solely and only
for its own delight.
It is curious to note how regression, this instinct to return to the
earlier mode of expression, to return apparently even to the pre-birth
state, persists in the unconscious mind.
During the war, I knew a youth who was intensely agitated by the
air-raids. He felt perfectly safe, however, if he could crawl under
the bed or table, where he would curl himself into practically the same
position as that of a normal baby before birth. When questioned, he had
not, of course, the slightest conscious knowledge of why he felt safe
in such curious circumstances. But it does not seem improbable that
the association of ideas produced by his position and by the confined
space created a feeling akin to that feeling of safety which has been
his in his pre-birth omnipotent position where nothing could harm him.
A similar feeling of security was experienced by many normal persons in
cellars and other confined spaces and was probably of the same origin;
for there is no doubt that this safety was felt even though their
reason told them that a bomb was as likely to reach their confined
space as any other place in the neighbourhood.
Again, I know of innumerable cases in which soldiers felt very much
safer from bombs which fell at night when they were under cover of a
canvas tent. Logically, of course, the thing was absurd; emotionally,
it was a fact. And all were equally unconscious of any possible
reasons for the feeling of security produced. An example of this same
tendency at an earlier age is seen in children who cover their heads
with the bedclothes when they are frightened.
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