The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cure — John Shaqi
The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cureBousfield, Paul
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The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cure
Bousfield, Paul
Mental healing; Psychoanalysis
Just as the mythical Narcissus himself fell in love with his
reflection, so does his prototype of to-day. An infant is not only
the omnipotent centre of all, he is also the only interesting portion
of the universe in his early days. His interests are entirely
self-centred, and his joys and pleasures belong to himself alone; and
as he grows older, everything that is like him is identified with
himself. In the worst form of Narcissism in the adult, the individual
remains entirely selfish, and is incapable of loving anybody outside
himself at all.
_By identification, however, he can love in a sense those attributes of
his own personality which he sees in other persons._ Thus, he may love
somebody for a facial similarity, for a voice which is like his, or for
tastes which are like his own, but most commonly he loves them for a
body like his own. And from this we see that he may fall in love with
somebody of his own sex. Hence, homo-sexuality,[5] as it is called,
is frequently one of the distressing results of an early Narcissistic
upbringing. But it need not be necessary for such homo-sexuality to
be of a grossly erotic type; such desires may be for the most part
repressed in the unconscious, or appear only in minor ways such as
the desire to kiss, fondle or touch favoured persons of the same sex.
On the other hand, frequently the early education and environment of
the Narcissistic person has been such as to leave him quite incapable
of complete repression; and we then have expressed more or less
open erotic desires and actions for persons of the same sex. Such
persons, however, should not be treated as criminals in this particular
matter; they are by this time as hopelessly incompetent to deal with
themselves, as is the kleptomaniac or a person having any other form
of so-called degenerate mentality. Here again, we see the reason why
homo-sexuality is so much more rife amongst women than amongst men. The
minor details of their early environment tend so much more to confirm
them in Narcissism. It is partially repressed and partially displaced
homo-sexuality which causes some women to kiss one another, to call one
another by affectionate names and so forth, to delight in taking hold
of one another’s hands on occasion; actions which normally, between
persons of opposite sex, would at once be taken to indicate some sort
of erotic affection, but which we are so used to seeing amongst women
that we do not realise their repressed and unconscious significance.
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