The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cureBousfield, Paul
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The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cure
Bousfield, Paul
Mental healing; Psychoanalysis
Another form of regression largely due to Narcissism is that of
alcoholism. Here again, there are other causes at work in the
unconscious, but Narcissism is one of the most important of them.
The Narcissist does not like real responsibility; he certainly
thinks that he is always desiring responsible posts and positions,
but this is merely because to hold a responsible position or to have
responsibility signifies importance and power. As a matter of fact,
when responsibility is thrust upon him, he often has a strong tendency
to avoid it, because responsibility entails dealing with facts as
they are, and not with phantasies; and the responsibility which the
Narcissist seeks is largely that of phantasy. In spite, therefore, of
his statements to the contrary, we know that he wishes to run away from
responsible positions, and alcohol has a peculiar power of enabling
one to forget the responsibilities of the moment, and at the same time
to give one a feeling of potency and well-being. Consequently, when
the Narcissist comes up against an unpleasant fact, a responsibility
which he does not wish to take, anything in fact which disturbs his
sense of well-being, alcohol serves the purpose of allowing regression
to infancy. It returns him very swiftly to that early period when he
had no responsibility, when he need take no thought of the facts around
him, when he had a sense of well-being and omnipotence. This potency
is increased by the fact that it also removes, simultaneously, other
repressions, that is, it allows other forms of infantile energy to be
expressed without conscious criticism or hindrance.
Exactly the same thing may be said of drug-taking. The drug-taker is
simply habitually seeking something to remove his responsibilities, to
lead him away from his conflicts which he does not wish to face, away
from the world of reality into an infantile world, where whatever his
surroundings, whatever the facts that exist, he is able to ignore them,
and feel himself in phantasy their master.
But the curious thing about all these regressions is that, in a sense,
they serve to satisfy the individual. They comfort him with the
unconscious assurance at the moment they are performed, that all will,
somehow, be well, that these reactions will somehow bring about the
desired end, that the abuse will succeed where the argument did not,
that the tears will somehow perform their magic act, that a rest in bed
will bring about new life, and that the new life will succeed where the
old life failed.
Never does the Narcissist realise facts as they are, deal with them as
facts, see them in their proper proportions, and leave them alone when
he cannot use them.
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