The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cureBousfield, Paul
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The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cure
Bousfield, Paul
Mental healing; Psychoanalysis
Perhaps at this point the details taken from a case of a woman
suffering from a “nervous breakdown” in which I used this method as a
subsidiary form of treatment, may not only be of interest, but will
also throw some light on the practical working of the method. I may
mention that her chief troubles were insomnia, constant worrying, great
depression, and inability to settle down to work of any kind.
In the first place, this patient commenced by stating that she had no
aim in life at all. She had to admit, however, immediately after, that
she had at least the aim of wishing to get well, or otherwise she would
not have come to me. On being asked why she wished to get well, several
subsidiary aims appeared. For the most part, they were rationalization,
and I knew these aims would be thrown over in due course, but that, for
the purpose in view, did not matter. I told her to go home, and write
down her aims, in the manner I have just indicated.
The following was the list brought to me on the next day.
(1) To be well.
(2) To be married.
(3) To become a doctor.
(4) And if I cannot do that, to become a masseuse.
(5) Or a psycho-analyst.
(6) Or a private secretary.
(7) And I should like to have two children.
With this rather pathetic list in front of me, I asked her to give as
far as possible the reasons she had for these various wishes, and to
examine these on the lines I had indicated, with the following results.
(1) _To get well._ “The reason for this aim is obvious; it is necessary
in order to obtain the others,” said she.
(2) _To get married._ “This aim has three subsidiary immediate aims,”
she replied, “and there may be others. (a) I want a comfortable home of
my own, (b) I want satisfaction of my natural instincts in accordance
with the custom of ordinary adult life, (c) I could attain the later
aim of having two children.” She immediately added, “In that case, the
aim of having two children is a remote aim, and if I follow your advice
I must no longer have day-dreams about them, I must put them out of my
thoughts, I must not waste time on anything connected with them, until
I am married.”
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