The Pain and Sorrow of Evil MarriageWorde, Wynkyn de
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The Pain and Sorrow of Evil Marriage
Worde, Wynkyn de
Marriage -- Poetry
Each of the tracts has a wood-cut on the titlepage, but only that called
“The payne and sorowe of evyll maryage,” can be said to have anything to
do with the subject, and that no doubt had been used for other works: it
represents a marriage ceremony,—a priest joining the hands of a couple
before the altar.
The “complaynt of them that be to soone maryed” opens with the following
stanza:
“For as moche as many folke there be
That desyre the sacrament of weddynge,
Other wyll kepe them in vyrgyny[t]e,
And toyll in chastyte be lyvynge;
Therfore I wyll put now in wrytynge
In what sorowe these men lede theyr lyves,
That to soone be coupled to cursed Wyves.”
Thence the author proceeds to give some very sage and serious advice
upon the evil of too hasty matrimonial alliances, but he does not
attempt much humour until he comes to describe the conduct of his wife
(for he writes in the first person throughout) when they had been
married eight days: until then he had not been “chydden ne banged,” but
he suffered for it bitterly afterwards;
“But soone ynoughe I had assayes
Of sorowe and care that made me bare.”
It may here be observed that the stanza is peculiar, and consists of
eight lines, the four first lines rhyming alternately, the fifth rhyming
with the fourth, then a line with a new rhyme, while the seventh line
rhymes with the third and fourth, and the eighth with the sixth. He
continues the narrative of his sufferings in the following manner:
“About eyght dayes, or soone after
Our maryage, the tyme for to passe
My wyfe I toke, and dyd set her
Upon my knee for to solace;
And began her for to enbrace,
Sayenge, syster, go get the tyme loste;
We must thynke to labour a pace
To recompence that it hathe us coste.
“Than for to despyte she up arose,
And drewe her faste behynde me,
To me sayenge, is this the glose?
Alas, pore caytyfe, well I se
That I never shall have, quod she,
With you more than payne and tormente:
I am in an evyll degre;
I have now loste my sacramente.
“For me be to longe with you here,
Alas, I ought well for to thynke
What we sholde do within ten yere,
Whan we shall have at our herte brynke
Many chyldren on for to thynke,
And crye after us without fayle
For theyr meate and theyr drynke;
Then shall it be no mervayle.
“Cursed be the houre that I ne was
Made a none in some cloyster,
Never there for to passe;
Or had be made some syster,
In servage with a clousterer.
It is not eyght dayes sythe oure weddynge
That we two togyther weere:
By god, ye speke to soone of werkynge.”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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