The Pastor: His Qualifications and DutiesHarvey, H. (Hezekiah)
Religion
The Pastor: His Qualifications and Duties
Harvey, H. (Hezekiah)
Pastoral theology
of consolation for the bereaved. Whatever the topic, the spirit and
manner should be dictated and pervaded by a genuine sympathy for the
sorrowing, and a hearty appreciation of whatever was excellent in the
character and life of the deceased. Though not a Christian, he may have
been a valuable citizen, a just and generous man, a true and unselfish
friend, a good husband and father. If any personal remarks are made,
such characteristics may properly be recognized on such an occasion as
honoring his memory and rendering his death a loss to the world.
4. The service at the grave should ordinarily be brief, as the people
are standing, and the circumstances of the place render an extended
service undesirable. Some pastors use here some one of the printed
manuals of burial services, others read from Scripture, or repeat from
memory, a selection of passages relating to death, the grave, and the
resurrection, and others make a brief address. Whatever the method
adopted, the service should be carefully prepared, and should vary in
its form, in order to secure in this, as in all services, variety and
adaptation to the occasion. The service is closed by the apostolic
benediction, prefaced sometimes by a few words of prayer.
5. It is desirable to visit the family in which death has occurred
before the funeral services, both to express your sympathy in the
affliction and to learn any facts respecting the deceased and the
arrangements for the funeral that may be necessary for you to know. The
pastor should here have the character of an adviser and friend. In all
arrangements for the funeral it is better, in general, to conform to
the customs of the community; but so far as he may use influence in
regard to these, it should be in favor of inexpensive simplicity and
against ostentatious display. Costliness and display at funerals
constitute in many communities an evil of such serious proportions and
consequences that the ministry should decidedly set their face against
it; for, established as an inexorable custom, it often augments and
perpetuates the sorrow of a death in the family by creating debt and
pecuniary embarrassment which remain for years to come. It is also
important to visit the family soon after the funeral to administer
further consolation, and to follow up any good impressions which
affliction has made. This is often one of the pastor's best
opportunities, as the heart is then tender and susceptible to religious
influences. It is in these dark hours of adversity that the Gospel is
felt in its saving, consoling, helping power in the soul, and the
pastor here should work with Providence, carefully improving the
opportunity.
+SECTION XII.+
CULTIVATION OF THE MISSIONARY SPIRIT.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account