The Peak in Darien, With Some Other Inquiries Touching Concerns of the Soul and the Body: An Octave of EssaysCobbe, Frances Power
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The Peak in Darien, With Some Other Inquiries Touching Concerns of the Soul and the Body: An Octave of Essays
Cobbe, Frances Power
Christianity; Death -- Religious aspects -- Christianity; Medicine -- Religious aspects -- Christianity; Women in Christianity
Let us now turn to the other side of the shield. Having discussed
the validity of the arguments against the admission of women to the
ministry, let us see what is to be said directly in favor of such an
innovation.
In the first place, it is obvious that women have certain special
aptitudes and qualifications (as well as the above-named inaptitudes)
for such an office. We have been hitherto speaking as if the work of a
minister lay almost exclusively in the pulpit and reading-desk; but we
must remember that a very large and very important part of it lies also
in the homes of the members of the congregation, in the hour of their
sorrows and difficulties, their sicknesses, doubts, repentances, death.
Can any one doubt that the tender and ready sympathies of women,
and their superior tact and discernment of character, their natural
tendency to soothe and exhort rather than to upbraid or threaten, are
qualities more valuable for such service than any which men, however
pious, well-meaning, and learned in casuistry, usually bring to such
tasks? As a matter of fact, women do, instinctively, perform the
office of ministering angels on these occasions all over the land,
without waiting for any license or consecration; while many of the
best of the clergy either suffer all their days from unconquerable
shyness and the sense of their own want of tact, or run speedily into
the ruts of professional consolations and exhortations in formal
phraseology, meaning little or nothing to speaker or hearer. Of all
the irritating--I might say maddening--things in human life, there
is nothing worse than to be addressed in the hour of mortal agony
and despair, when our hearts, riven to the core, could scarcely bear
an angel’s touch, by a smug, self-satisfied personage, who inflicts
on us his cut-and-dried consolations and exhortations to perfect
quiescence and cheerful resignation; all the time revealing, by every
word and gesture, how utterly incapable he is of comprehending even
the shadow of our grief. It would be difficult to estimate how many
people (especially the intelligent men of the humbler classes, who
are the principal victims of these tormentors),--men who would have
suffered themselves to be led with childlike submission by any wise and
loving hand, even through the wicket-gate of prayer and repentance,
to the heavenly way,--have been, on the contrary, goaded by tactless
parsons into hardness and rebellion. It is real, genuine, spontaneous
_sympathy_ which alone can authorize any one to approach the sacred
borders of a great sorrow. Can any one doubt that women would, as a
general rule, feel this more tenderly, more genuinely than men? The
fear would be that the strain on the heart of a good woman, minister of
a large congregation, would be so great as very sensibly to tell upon
health and life.
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