In acknowledging this, dear mother, the laws point out to the favored
women of Egypt the very responsible duties they have to perform. The
elevation of woman to be the friend and companion of man, is due to
the wisdom of the priesthood. These men have wives whom they love and
respect, and I have seen the priest of On seated in his summer parlor,
which overlooks the street, by the side of his noble-looking wife
(who, it is said, is a descendant of a priest of On, whose daughter
was married to Prince Joseph, the Hebrew), surrounded by their
children, and manifesting their mutual affection by numberless
domestic graces; and I was charmed with the expressions of endearment
I heard them use to each other and to their children. What a contrast
all this to the priests of Tyre, who regard celibacy as the highest
act of piety!
The hand of your sex, my dear mother, is apparent in all the household
arrangements, and in the furniture and style of the dwellings. In her
contract of marriage it is written, that the lady shall have the whole
regulation of domestic affairs and the management of the house, and
that the husband shall, in all such matters, defer to the judgment and
wishes of the wife. Neither king, priest, nor subject can have more
than one wife, a custom differing from our own, and far superior to
it. It is owing to this universal honor paid to the sex, that queens
have repeatedly, since the ancient reign of Binothris, held the royal
authority and had the supreme direction of affairs intrusted to them.
It is proper to say, that although the Egyptians have but one wife,
they are not forbidden by the laws to have favorites, who are usually
slaves, and owe their elevation to talents or beauty. They do not,
however, hold any social relation; and the wife, to whom alone is
given the title "lady of the house," enjoys an acknowledged
superiority over them. But concubinage, though tolerated, is not
regarded with favor, and is practised by few.
The Egyptian ladies employ much of their time with the needle; and
either with their own hands, or by the agency of their maidens, they
embroider, weave, spin, and do needle-work--the last in the most
skilful and beautiful manner. They embroider chairs with thread of
gold or silver, adorn sofas with embroidery, and ornament coverings
for their couches with needle-work of divers colors, so artfully
executed as to appear, on both sides, of equal beauty and finish. At
the banquets or social festivals, which are very frequent, for the
Egyptians are fond of society, the ladies sit at the same table with
the men, and no rigid mistrust closes their doors on such occasions to
strangers, towards whom they are ever courteous and hospitable; save
only in religious ceremonies, from which, and "the mysteries of their
theology," they are jealously excluded.
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