As the Jaina scriptures are in effect a manual of discipline for monks,
it is natural that they should be severe on womankind. Not that a
woman’s soul is worth less than a man’s or, rather, since spirit is
sexless, the distinction does not exist. A woman may be as good a saint
as a man; a nun may be as meritorious as a monk. The identity of
mysticism independent of creed was never more apparent than in the
beautiful saying of a Jaina nun: “As a bird dislikes the cage, so do I
dislike the world,” which might have been uttered by any of the
self-consumed spirits of the Latin Church from St. Teresa downwards. I
have never come across an allusion to being born again as a woman as a
punishment. But though the fullest potentiality of merit is allowed to
woman in the abstract, the Eternal Feminine is looked upon in the
concrete as man’s worst snare. “Women are the greatest temptation in the
world.” The Jaina books are Counsels of Perfection and not a Decalogue
framed for common humanity: they give one the idea of being intended for
preternaturally good people, and never more so than in the manner in
which they treat the dreadful snares and temptations for which women are
answerable: instead of a Venusberg, we are shown—the domestic hearth!
The story in question might be called “The Woes of the Model Husband!” A
girl who vowed that she would do anything rather than be parted from the
dear object of her affections, has no sooner settled the matter once for
all by marriage than she begins to scold and trample on the poor man’s
head. Her spouse is sent on a thousand errands, not one moment can he
call his own. Countless are the lady’s wants and her commands keep pace
with them: “Do look for the bodkin; go and get some fruit; bring wood to
cook the vegetables; why don’t you come and rub my back instead of
standing there doing nothing? Are my clothes all right? Where is the
scent-bottle? I want the hair-dresser. Where is my basket to put my
things in? And my trinkets? There, I want my shoes and my umbrella.
Bring me my comb and the ribbon to tie up my hair. Get the looking-glass
and a tooth-brush. I must have a needle and thread. You really ought to
look after the stores, the rainy season will be here in no time.” These
and many more are the young wife’s behests, the appalling list of which
might well intimidate those about to marry, but there is worse to come.
When “the joy of their lives, the crown of their wedded bliss” arrives
in the shape of a baby, it is the unfortunate husband who is set to mind
it: he has to get up in the night to sing lullabies to it “just as if he
were a nurserymaid,” and ashamed though he is of such a humiliation, he
is actually put to wash the baby-linen! “All this has been done by many
men who for the sake of pleasure have stooped so low; they become the
equals of slaves, animals, beasts of burden, _mere nobodies_.” Would not
most readers take this for a quotation from one of Ibsen’s plays rather
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